How to break up with posessive/annoying BF?

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Hello all!
So here is my dilemma: 
I have been talking to this guy for 2 weeks now, and I can already feel myself being suffocated. We have had "relations". He's too possesive. He calls me all the time and if I do not answer he will keep calling..and calling...and calling..and leave messages basically yelling at me for not answering my phone. He constantly acuses me of being with other guys. He always wants to have sex, and if I tell him I'm too tired he'll hound me for a BJ. I told him day 1 that I didn't want to be tied down in a relationship; but of course he just didn't hear it or care.
Now he tells me he "loves" me and I refuse to say it back because I don't feel that way. I really cant stand him or his personality anymore. I just don't know how to let him down. Again, he is very possesive and hard headed.

Tass · Accepted Answer

Wow after two weeks you've only scratched the surface with this jerk - imagine what he will be doing in two years time :(
Dump him asap by text or just ignore his calls until he gets the message. Tbh, do not put yourself in the situation of being alone with him when you tell him if he asks to meet you, have a friend nearby or be in a public place.
If he hounds you or threatens you, make a police report. He sounds a psycho honey so get shut NOW and change your number.

Larissa · Answer

hmm...dump him. just do it. if he really loved you, he wouldn't treat you like this. nobody should be hounding their partners for sex or anything of that sort. just tell him that it's over. but don't be too mean about it, just let him down easy. tell him that you can still be friends (that is if you still want to be around him with a more distant kind of frienship) be sure to tell him and person and don't break up with him through a text message or a phone call. good luck hun :)

Anonymous · Answer

jst tell him its over bt have someone else there or around to watch jst incase it gets out of hand and then block his number and email and everything and if you say him walk past him basically after the break up pretend he doesnt exist and if he is still messin with you put a restraining order against him

Anonymous · Answer

sit him down, in a PUBLIC place, like a bench in the park, or in the mall, or at lunch at subway or something...and then slowly let it out "hey, I'm really sorry, but I don't think this is going to work out for the two of us..." don't yell, maybe pay for the footlong sub, and then happily be on your way =)

Anonymous · Answer

just tell him straight up. the longer you let these possessive guys think you are an item the harder it is to break up, Tell him its only been 2 weeks and you don't think you two are compatible

ZRfoff · Answer

let his crazy *** be hard headed. i would leave him...very fast and if he does not get it then tell him you will get a restraining order and you probably should anyway. if you dont do these things you are just asking to be with him!

Erin · Answer

Tell him, "I'm sorry, but I don't want to see you anymore.  I don't want to hear from you anymore.  Please lose my number and never call me again."

Anonymous · Answer

tell him what you just wrote then say sorry i can't be with someone like that

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