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Girls: Isn't this manipulative?

Lots of women(including quite a few I've dated) feel that they have to wait to have sex with someone, to "catch" the guy. As if they have a trap vagina.

Isn't this just as manipulative as a guy making a girl his girlfriend just so she'll have sex with him?

Update:

If he gets what he wants, and is going to leave anyway, you'd think he wasn't worth her time in the first place.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    That's why it's called a "game".

  • 1 decade ago

    Your question reveals so much about you! A trap vagina? So Freudian. Maybe they don't have sex with you 'cos they're just not that into you? I've always found that a girl who really wants to be with you has sex with you pretty quickly. The others who say they want to wait, are really saying "I'm not sure about us yet". The key is honesty between you, and talking beforehand. If you've taken the time to know them, and have shown the real you to them, then they can make a decision and follow their heart rather than their head. Play games, and a girl can't be sure, so of course she prevaricates and plays mind games, to see what information she can get, on which to base such an important decision. If you've only met or known manipulative girls, then maybe you're the problem?

  • 1 decade ago

    Women are very smart at things like this. They know if they deprive you of something long enough you will think it's the best thing in the world. You'll be saying, "I didn't have sex I made love", you didn't make love, no one has ever made love, you had sex, you only think you made love because you haven't had sex in 10 months.

    Source(s): Sorry, I'm not a woman.
  • 1 decade ago

    guys and girl play headgames. they dont want to be pushovers and give them whatever the other person wants cuz... well no one rly nos y, i guess so they dont get dumped for being boring.

    girls dont give guys whatever they want whenever they want cuz then the guy will get what he wants and leave, or at least thats what were afraid of. it might make no sense to u, but there rly is reasoning to that.

    mine plz??

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