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my ex boyfriend and i had a very bad breakup, why cant i stop thinking about him?

me and my ex boyfriend have been dating for four months but we had a long history before we started dating (nothing sexual happened haha im not like that). we broke up last november and it was a very bad breakup. he was rude and send me a nasty facebook message because i wasn't happy with our relationship and i wanted to end it. but now that its over its really hard for me to forget about him. iv moved on and im now dating an amazing guy who i have been on and off with for more than 2 years (we broke up only twice) and he moved on too. but i feel like he moved on to this new girl in revenge because i went back with the guy iv been on and off wth. but even though im happy with my boyfriend now, there are days i just think about my ex. is it true that when you have a bad breakup you think about the person even more because it ended on bad terms?

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**Sorryyy if its really confusing!!!!!** but i dont know what to do :(

i always wonder if he thinks about me the same way i think about him

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Aha its call fantasizing. Sometimes you dont even need a real person like in a book. You liked the guy, cant forget somebody like nothing happened. Most of the time. Will pass.

  • 4 years ago

    sounds pick to me you're nonetheless not over him, possibly you sense responsible approximately what befell which could clarify a number of your emotions, in the initiating, i might have reported getting a clean boyfriend or companion, yet you have executed that already... in case you may, discover some thing new to take your suggestions off him once you think of approximately him, possibly some thing like a activity, possibly strolling or going to the wellness midsection even, or so basic as going out, procuring or to a meal or something to get your suggestions off him. i might say the explanation you cant recover from him is a blend of the reality you nonetheless love him, or like him and the guilt you sense, in case you sense any. Is there no way of contacting him? No thank you to handle your subject concerns..? in case you have any way of contacting him, even by using facebook or a social networking website seek advice from him and clarify whats going on on your suggestions. i'm hoping i helped a minimum of a splash :) goodluck!

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