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Aries Men Ignoring YOU?

Ok. I have been dating an Aries for 3 or 4 months, things have been great real connection. He vanished for 1 week and then came back.. a few days later his father died. So we went to the funeral I was real supportive, things went well for the next week and now he is gone again? Why does it seem like when he gets close he leaves? He wont answer my calls, or anything? How do I get him back, ignore him completly?

Update:

I lost my father too, so I do understand... Does anyone think that he will be back? Do I just give him time alone?

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  • tR@c!3
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
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    I think he might just need intervals of time where he needs to be alone because he recently went through losing his father. It sounds perfectly natural. Once it's been awhile and he's had some healing time, I'll bet things get increasingly better for you both.

    Source(s): Pisces
  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Ask yourself carefully what you want to do and then act on it. I would advise not ignoring him too long though because Aries men like to be in control and powerful. They don't like to feel rejected. He wants the fairytale princess and it's true that he likes the conquest but as soon as his pride is hurt, he will just forget you. Aries men have a habit of disappearing for days but if you are the one, he won't be unfaithful and will do anything for you. He is romantic at heart and if he is angry, he will forget it fast. If he's cold, then I would worry. Aries need their space. Give him that but don't play games as they hate that too. Just don't appear dependent because they like their women to be the independent, new-age fairytale princesses. But if you are too aloof, he will not be happy. Just strike a balance. Easier said than done I know! Above all, let him think he's the boss and in control, even if it is you pulling the strings. They have a huge ego.

  • 1 decade ago

    Just give him some time a couple of weeks or so to heal his wounds , he just lost his dad and he still has a lot of things on his mind, your Aries boyfriend won't leave you or anything he's just going true a phase but things will get better again

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    First, give the guy breathing room. Let him go after you and not the other way around. He hates being chased and he has to take initiative in everything. Otherwise, he will disappear as you explained. Just remember that an Aries will commit only when he has made up his mind that YOU are the one. If you can't keep up with him, he can disappear and drop you quickly. We are a little impatient and always want to stay ahead. If the guy is a real Aries, he doesn't like to win over his women too easily.

    Aries

    Source(s): The Undertaker
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well if you think about it hes just lost his dad who he loved very much so he is scared to love someone incase they die dont take it to heart just leave him to mourn you cant expect him to be all lovey dovey with you yet

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