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have you ever had a major crush on a guy that was already taken?

I've had a crush on my manager for some time now. I've been trying to get over it but he is so perfect in my eyes. ughh....I'm not trying to steal him because I'm not that kind of girl. Does any one know of a way on how I can try and get him out of my head. I guess you could say that I am fairly attractive but even when I try and "talk" with other guys all I can think about is my manager. Does anyone know how I can get rid of this feeling?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    I know exactly how you feel. I had this crush on a guy who already had a girlfriend. No matter what i did i couldn't get him out of my head. But, one day I realized that I was just hurting myself by thinking about him so i started hanging out with my friends more and trying to forget about him. All i can say is he'll eventually ask you out or he won't. Until then, just do your best to forget about him. GOOD LUCK! :)

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    I've been there, I'm in that situation and honestly the feelings DO NOT go away, best thing I can tell you is just to be a friend, act like a friend, and eventually it'll feel okay to just be friends.

    All the best, it'll turn out how it's supposed to.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yeah im in a situation like that too and sadly i also dont know what to do..=(

    maybe its best to back off and try meeting other people and then when his finally single you could give him a shot.. maybe we shouldn't wait around, you know.. its just wasting time.. anyway, in the meantime, just try dating and maybe if you guys are meant to be, he'll be single again..

    ;)

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  • 1 decade ago

    it's pretty hard ;/

    been there, done that.

    just try to find some bad qualities of him or something

    or look for someone better?

    over time you'll get over it D:

    remember: don't be a homewrecker!

  • 1 decade ago

    GO for it with him, if he rejects you it'll be much easier to move on. If he doesn't well you got what you wanted. Shoot him a text letting him know

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