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Lv 5
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Ramadan: A question for sisters (Inspired by ƙυʅƭɦυɱ)?

Would you ever be a second wife?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I am my husband's second and last wife. I knew my husband was married before me, he told me before we married and I accepted it though I knew nothing of polygamy. My husband treats us both fairly and equally, he loves us both and loves different things about us as well. My sister-wife and I get along with each other and I would do anything for my sister-wife and our husband knows this is true. I plan on taking care of my sister-wife when Insha Allah she is blessed with children and I will be taking care of her, my step children, our husband, cooking for my children and cleaning my children's rooms and my part of our home in addition to my schooling in 3 years. My husband knows I am not a heartless cold ***** which is why he fell in love with me and married me. This marriage is from Allah (Subhanna wa Ta'ala).

  • Rouge
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Point blank: Not a chance, no way, never. If he wants someone else, he can leave me and go with her. If I can't have children then I would leave him and go with someone who accepts me for who I am; I would never leave my husband if he couldn't have children and there are plenty of children who need adoption out there. If wants to help another woman then surely he can afford to help her family with some money I don't see the need to marry someone to help them.

    He has no excuse.

  • 1 decade ago

    Depend on the husband.

    If I love him so much, and I trust his character and know that he is pious and doing it for the right intentions then inshAllah I would have the iman to say yes. If the opposite, then heck no.

    Salam.

  • Susan
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    hm,if there was no other choice,I could become a second wife or public property with no protection,only then I would consider it.

    Other then that,never!

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  • Amanda
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    In the right circumstances, I wouldn't have a problem with it. But I'm fairly open minded.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Nope

  • 1 decade ago

    If treated equally & gives equal importance to both.

  • 1 decade ago

    Justice in every matter.........

    the only requirement.

    if hes unjust then hes responsible of his doings

    ......sabiroon will be rewarded......

  • 1 decade ago

    Only if he had divorced the first one...and was rich

  • 1 decade ago

    Never.

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