I need Asperger's advice?

Aspies tend to be "black and white, right and wrong." There is not much room for gray areas. You will have to come to him on his level. I would recommend the book "Loving Mr. Spock"

Asperger's can not be cured, it is a genetic condition that can be worked on and mitigated, but can not be cured. Each person has it differently and reacts to the world differently, but here is some basics.

Asperger's syndrome is, in it's most basic form, Autism. Autism is broken into two types, Kanner's and Asperger's, with the break at the 70 IQ level. If your IQ is 70 or below you have Kanner's Autism, if your IQ is 71 or above, you have Asperger's autism. (it is a little more complicated than that in it's break up, but for a beginner this is good)

The easiest way to describe Asperger's syndrome to someone who has never heard of it is to describe it as a Social Autism. The person who has Asperger's grew up not learning the social cues around him/her. The person does not, usually, understand subtle social cues that the normal person takes for granted. Things such as sarcasm, and body language that change the meaning of a statement, are not understood by the asperger person, and taken literally.

Asperger syndrome is also called "the little professor syndrome"

The Asperger type is usually very literal in what is stated, and what is understood. The normal person usually sees the asperger person as being emotion-less, though this is not true. Emotions are just kept very deep inside and not brought to the surface. The aspie also does not know what to do with another person who is experiencing emotions, and needs to be told what to in these instances. Phrases like "I need you to hold me now" are very helpful" in a relationship, for the normal (NT) person to say to the aspie.

Aspies tend to like routines. Change is very difficult, and they will be slow to accept it.

Aspies will appear to lack empathy. As stated above, this is not due to lack of empathy, but a lack of knowledge of how to show it.

Aspies tend to have more of a formal use of words than the NT wold or have a formal style of speaking that is advanced for his or her age. For example, the aspie may use the word "beckon" instead of "call" or the word "return" instead of "come back."

ASPIES TEND TO AVOID EYE CONTACT. This is not due to lying or being self conscious. The eyes are very difficult to look at, and cause mental anguish and pain in many aspies. They are unable to think of what they want to say, and look another in the eyes at the same time.

Aspies may have unusual facial expressions or body postures. They may be more formal in the way they stand, or just look out of place. Their facial features may not express the emotions that they are experiencing. They may not frown when they are sad, smile when happy, etc...

Many Aspies are pre-occupied with one or a few subjects of interest and learn everything there is to know about those subjects to the exclusion of all others. They may not want to discuss anything other than those subjects with anyone. When brought into a conversation, they will immediately take the conversation to their chosen subject of interest, and then talk about it non-stop. They will not notice that nobody else wants to discuss that subject.

Aspies tend to have heightened sensitivity and become overstimulated by loud noises, lights, or strong tastes or textures. They may only eat certain things, or order foods certain ways. They may not be able to work in rooms with florescent lighting due to the buzz or the flicker, even when nobody else notices. Many different things, for many different people.

Well, you can causally hold his hand and see what happens from there. But don't be too pushy, he is taking his time. Don't rush him.