I wish I could take it back?

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A few weeks ago I broke up with my first boyfriend of 5 months because we could never see each other,except in school. We never said I love you to each other. We could never hang out. And we didn't really have much in common I don't think. When I broke up with him I felt kind of liberated, or something, but now I really miss him. I think about him a lot, and I feel like.... Kind of like I love(d?) him. I mean we spent 5 months together, and then he's gone. Now there's also another problem. I met a guy who really really likes me. We've  been texting for awhile and have plans to go to the fair next week. I know now what people mean by the "rebound", and leading people on. The thing is, I don't know how to tell this guy i don't feel the same way, especially since I HAVE been leading him on I just didn't really realize it till now. I want my ex back, and i don't want to hurt this new guy cause he's really nice and doesn't deserve this. What do I do?

Nicole · Accepted Answer

I was basically in the same situation. Before you do anything, Check out this website. It has many info that tells you exactly what to do to get your ex back. It saved my five year relationship. Hope that helps. :)

sqeeky · Answer

I think you should go to the fair but in a friend type of way and see how you like this guy and if you don't then just tell him how you REALLY feel. Nothing is better than an honest answer. If you realize that you like this guy then take a risk and see how this new relationship works out for you.  If you think your ex is the one then settle it with him. Hope this helped and good luck.

Just Curious · Answer

You made a mistake. It happens. It's not your fault if you don't like the new guy. At least you tried though! You just have to let him down easy. Tell him you just got out of your 1st real relationship and you don't think your ready to start a new one because your not sure how you still feel about your ex. If you really do want your ex back you just have to call him and tell him you made a mistake. He may understand. Good Luck!

Best Answer™ · Answer

Hey you could start by telling the new guy how you still have feelings for your ex and that you just want to be friends with him (new guy)...you should stop leading him on...if you just continue to lead him on the situation would get more complicated and he might get really hurt...
If you want to get back together with your ex you should talk to him..tell him how you feel and how you want to give your relationship another chance...find out how he feels..don't go after him pestering him that you want to get back together just take things slow...i put a link under resources which might help you =D

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