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I am writing my first book , growing up gay in an irish catholic family in the projects?

I was all alone to deal with it while having 10 siblings and a dad who was disgusted with a little boy who was scared. I felt the hate when My football player brother died of cancer, he was 18 and I was 16. the whole family fell apart but we were not allowed to talk about it.....many wonderfl people and sitations as well as horror

Update:

this is about me and the horror of being left to fend for myself. I am only interested in telling my story and what happend to me....the way I see it. I cannot control other people or the way they see things. there is sex abuse and verbal as well as physical abuse. this story needs to be told and has never been written before. thanks for all the great suggestions

Update 2:

I am sorry I got so carried away. my qestion is how can I finfd someone to help me write it? I have 50 pages but its getting way out of my hands at this point and I need some help.

thank you all for answering

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Is this an autobiographical book? I mean no offense, I'm just curious.

    I really like the idea. Good luck with it. If you ever need an editor, just email me. I'd be happy to help out.

  • 1 decade ago

    I would say proceed with caution: if this is an autobiographic story you are going to have to be very, very careful. You're not just telling your own story here - you're discussing the lives of family members and close friends too. Even those who loved and supported you through those tough times may not necessarily want this story told to the world - or agree with your interpretation of it. That's because people handle the past and their part in it in different ways - some try to block it out, pretending it never happened, and will fight viciously to protect that delusion, no matter what. Others will go out of their way to justify events to themselves - even if it means muddying the truth or even inventing elaborate 'alternative versions' of it. If you don't want a book like this to cause even more pain and division in your family than the original events, you will need to work very closely with the people who feelings you value and keep getting feedback from them throughout the whole process of writing your book. There will be parts they don't like, will insist never happened and demand that you don't include. If that happens, only you can decide if telling 'the whole, uncensored truth' will be worth the risk of alienating yourself from your family.

    I appreciate that you want to tell your story, and I'm certainly not advising you against it. I'm just cautioning you to think about what happens afterwards, when the book is published and the fame, money and euphoria of unburdening yourself to the world (if that is indeed what comes to pass) have faded. If you can deal with all of that, I'd say go for it.

  • JayJay
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    sounds very good

    but i think that might be the life story of some guy

    it sounds vaguely familar but im not sure who it is

  • 1 decade ago

    sounds interesting.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    so . . . what is the question?

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