Invited to a Bridal shower and Bachlorette party!!!?

Bridal shower you get something off the registry. Bach party usually no gifts except some times gag gifts like a coupon book for her to get guys to but her drinks at the bar. typically the guests at bach parties help pay for the trip and or limo and thats enough not extra gift required

For the bridal shower, the bride's grandparents, parents, aunts, in-laws, etc. will all be there. Don't give lingerie. Give her something for her kitchen, off the registry. Also dress like you are going to church, this isn't going to be a big "bash." it's going to be a nice event, with older attendees, think "afternoon tea."

For the bachelorette party, you don't give a formal "gift," but buying her drinks and/or food and/or fun party accessories is what you should do. Talk to one of the bridesmaids and see what you can bring. Some fun items I've seen are candy undies, penis shaped pasta, etc. However, some brides aren't into these types of gifts, so make sure you check with a bridesmaid.

Are they one combined party? A lingerie set would be good. If they're two separate events, you can get her something from her registry for the bridal shower. You don't need to bring a gift to a bachelorette party.