What to do? Meeting online boyfriend..nervous!?

Keep the separate rooms so you have that breathing space to fall back on if you need it. There's nothing worse than feeling trapped in a situation when one turns out to feel different than the other or even just the chemistry in real life just isn't there. It's better to have 2 rooms and only use 1 in the end if you get on that well than only have 1 room to start with and find you don't get on that well in real life. You don't know him well enough to know what his real intentions are with sharing the room and what he says to you may not be what happens on the night, so keeping the 2 rooms gives you an escape option if his intentions turn out to be more than what you want or agree to. I would stay clear of the bedroom with him this time and just enjoy as much time as possible getting to know each other properly away from the bedrooms. That way you can both go back and have your own breathing space, to freshen up, sleep etc in your own rooms. Maybe even the next time you meet in those circumstances you can share a room as you'll be more 'familiar' with him by then.

Go on the date and have fun. I hope you like him as much in person.

If you don't want to have sex with him then I would not be a good idea to share a room with him.

I mean what would be the reason to share a room? Honestly there is no reason to share the same room unless you or having sex or to save money. That's what the cheaper motels are for though.

I'm not saying you guys aren't mature enough but some one can get tempted having someone in the same bed. So don't put your self in that type of situation.

I've met plenty of girls online, met them in person and had a great relationship. It happens. However, I'm still looking if that says anything about the overall success.

well you are both old enough im assuming, so you both should be mature adults. Let him know chances are youre not giving it up and you find no problem sharing a room. Two adults can sleep side by side without incident. plus there will be a couch just in case.

just tell him no sex.

Get separate rooms, if you hit it off and do want to spend the night together, you're set. If not, you have a contingency plan. Reserve the second room, if don't need it, cancel it early and get a refund.

yes it will be weard ..as you become close online but in real its defferent you tend to be scared of his reaction and how you should behave.

first tell he that you are scared and may not be your self and dont want to rush or make judgements. tell u want to take day or two before getting any closer.

rest will happen automatically after first day ul feel like u met him 100 yrs ago

How old are you guys?

You sound kind of young, maybe you should meet in a public place nearby first.

don't share a room with him you meeting him in person. Its not classy to have sex when your not married.

Make sure you let friends and family know where you are at all times just to be on the safe side..

This is weird....Ok....weird......What if this guys ugly as all S#@T???!!! What if your Ugly? And yer a lil old to be messing with a young kid like that....This is weird.......