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from your own experiences... what would u do if u were in this spot?

from a little as im going to tell you just try to imagine as best as you can ...

basically my girlfriend is in love and the situation is very touchy with her parents, she wants to get married in a FEW years (as of now she is only 17) but her family is very culturally, financially, and spiritually controlling and already have a couple of suitors they want her to consider and choose one and marry him.

she wants to stay with her love and mary him but she is afraid that they will force her to marry someone else and all the "WHAT IF's" are clouding her thinking .... (she is a Catholic Croatian if that helps bring any clarification on how her family life is like) ... what is your view on this ? i am a bit lost for words right now ...what advice would U give her for some clarity or comfort ?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Give her a little of both but try not to diss her family it'll only make you look like an ***

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    She should follow her heart and whatever happens happens. It will all work out in the end dont forget that! And rememeber that no matter what happens she will always have a friend by her side.

  • 1 decade ago

    it is her choice, and she can lay out her own path with god's help. her parents have good interests in mind, but the marriges wont work out without love

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