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Is my best friend overreacting, what do you guys think (need answers please)?
We are both 18 years old guys who just graduated high school about 3 1/2 weeks ago, been best friends since pre-school.
So about two months ago, I made a comment to a new picture my best friend posted on MySpace saying:
"Oh no, you look chubbier, is it the food from McDonalds?" in a joking manner, with expression faces and such, indicating that I was joking, he makes it so he has to approve the comment before being posted, when I try to find out if he approved my comment (which was a joke), I found out he deleted me from MySpace.
After that I apologized tremendously lots of times and explained how much he means to me, but not to the point where it annoys him.
The reaction I got was him being angry, cussing me out, and asking me to stop texting him.
I did all I can to make amends, I tried calling but he hung up on me.
meeting him in person is out of the question because in order for that to happen, we need to call each other first. I messaged him on Facebook (I have him as a friend there still) apologizing sincerely, as well as text, indicating to him I still care about him.
I can't believe he's still mad at me for this, I mean after all, it's been almost two months since this happened. We already missed each other's birthdays, I said Happy Birthday to him, but he didn't say it to me. If I call he'll just hang up on me. He is super skinny, so I don't know why it would offend him so much.
On his Facebook, it indicates that he's currently had another falling out with another one of his friends, he talked about being a backstabber and such to another friend, and asking his other friend to forgive him. (This other friend's falling out is still not resolved yet)
Based on the Facebook world, he seems pretty "happy", but you never know, people can hide their true feelings, right?
We graduated high school 3 1/2 weeks ago, and we go to different high schools.
By the way, this is the ONLY reason why he's mad at me. I didn't do anything else to him, do don't need to mention that.
He did mention that working at McDonald's is stressful, if that helps? (Yes he works there)
How do I recover this friendship?
We don't have any mutual friends by the way, so I can't ask them to talk to him or whatever.
I'm going through so much right now and I seriously don't need this, please help me to the best of your ability, and if you have any more questions about this, please email me, thanks!
7 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
He maybe deeply hurt by it. But he should have let it go by now. Not with this much rage. He may need serious help. He maybe suffering hypertension (high-blood pressure), Bipolar, Manic Depression, or he might be anorexic. If he's super thin like you said he might have a problem with that. If he hasn't calm down about it now I'd talk to his family to see if he's ok. He maybe having some problems at home there as well. Like personality changes.
I can relate my sister came down with a mental illness. She just one day disclaimed me out of the blue. I've known her all my life she never did once did that. I love her dearly and I can't see her go through that she is now herself when she got help.
Talk to his family. Problems like this usually starts after High school. Mainly when you turn 18yrs old. Sometimes relationships recover when he gets help. But if he's fine. Then he's just plainly being a jerk.
- ?Lv 51 decade ago
Yes, he is over reacting. He's totally out of control. Maybe he has mood swings due to drug use? It sounds like he worries about how others are going to take it. He shouldn't worry about impressing others, but maybe that's what bothered him. I think you should just cool it with him. If he gets so upset about a minor remark like that, then you will have to choose your words very carefully every time you open your mouth. Sounds like he can't take any criticism or is lacking a sense of humor. A friendship like that isn't worth it because he will always be on the defense every time you say something. if you can't laugh and joke around, then where's the friendship anyway.
- 1 decade ago
Dude if he gets offended over a joke made by you than you guys probably don't know each other so well. Stop trying to contact him. He will soon realize that you guys are friends and want to contact you back. If that's not the case then maybe his actions and circumstances might indicate something he wishes to tell you but feels dumb or stupid saying it. You might want to look into that.
- ?Lv 45 years ago
attempt to (ok, this sounds extraordinary, yet) *capture him in a concern the place he isnt under pressure out (ie artwork) and ask why he's mad at you. needless to say, he will the two say something which you didnt think of replaced into incorrect (which you wouldnt think of replaced into incorrect) or he will point out the MySpace incident. merely clarify {in an incredibly calm way} which you have been in basic terms joking. in keeping along with his answer, merely shop attempting to describe you have been joking (yet don't be all "i replaced into in basic terms JOKING!"). merely form of SOFTLY shop asserting you have been joking. don't be sarcastic approximately it, that may not possibly clean up something. merely be tender while explaining the way you have been joking and easily making a fact that he replaced into working at McDonald's. i'm hoping I helped.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
He's an ignorant idiot in my eyes.
If he doesn't let go, maybe he's jealous of something you've got, and finally had a reason to bash out on you. I know it sounds dumb, but I've done that.
You should just tell him that he's acting really childish, and that his behavior is truly making you sad.
- 1 decade ago
hes ovbiously not interested so leave him, hes probably loving the attention hes getting from you, seriously leave him alone for a while, once he sees that your not running after him then he will start running after you, and if he is a good friend then give him some time to cool off and when hes ready he will come to you himself.