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My Ex dumped me for being too skinny?
i am 5'7.5 and 118lb and my boyfriend of 2 years told me that i was too skinny and that he would dump me if i didn't gain at least 50lb! I was like no way, and our relationship ended. I know this is weird becuase usually people get dumped for being too fat not the oposite? is he like a chubby chaser or something? i mean 168lb would be being overweight or obesety right? why would anyone want to have a fat girlfriend/boyfriend???
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- ?Lv 51 decade agoFavorite Answer
every person had a weight preference whether they admit it or not. i'm 5'8 and 115lb and one thing i have learned is don't change for anyone other than yourself. I'm naturally a skinny person and i cannot gain weight so if someone asked that of me it would be impossible anyway. It is weird after 2 years he would just spring that on you though..
but, some guys do prefer overweight women to skinny women and the other way around. Most people i know, both guys and girls prefer someone with a healthy weight than an underweight or overweight person. I'm not saying we're underweight, i'm just picking out that a person's preference does change and maybe that was the case with him, but it does seem weird to me after 2 years he would ask that of you. He obviously didn't love you for you and in my opinion you are better off to find someone that does.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
for someone of a height of 5'7.5 168 is only like 18 overweight. it isn't really him being a 'chubby chaser'. and yes fat people have a intimate relationships. some men prefer that. you should try and not be so shallow. he probably just wants you to be healthy. 118lbs for a women of your height does not sound healthy.
Source(s): my here brain - 1 decade ago
Your ex is a jerk!
As to your other question why anybody would want a fat boyfriend:
I like to compare it to having the choice between snuggling up to a pillow or a stick. Who would want to cuddle with a stick when there are pillows?! It's a lot more cozy to snuggle up to an overweight person compared to a skinny/muscular one. Skinny people do look better but I would prefer an overweight guy to a skinny one any day.
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- 1 decade ago
I think your better off without him. No one should change their appearance or personality for anyone. The guy started dating you because of how you are and what you look like. Why on earth would he want to change you. After all it's what you looked like which attracted him to you in the first place.
Find someone who is going to treat you like a princess and respect you.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Pretty boney.
I bet you complain about dieting a lot, or foods, that can be annoying as F*CK.
5"8' and 118, are you trying to be a runway model? lolz.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
He was just looking for an excuse for his insecurities so be glad you're rid of this jerk & can have some fun at last.
- 1 decade ago
hey you sound cute and i personaly like skinny gurls wanna try talking to me ;)
but anyways id say he has a mental problem let da dude kick rocks
perfect weight by the way
- Anonymous1 decade ago
It doesn't matter and you should forget him and this! You shouldn't take this to offense, do not accept that he said that! Move on and forget him!
BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF