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How do I tell my boyfriend that our relationship is lacking romance?

My boyfriend and I are lacking in the romance department. I make him cute little cards, make him dinner, and send him little messages. Lately, I feel like he barely even tries. He never takes me out, always says he's too broke (despite the fact we go Dutch, he has a job, I do not, and that he just bought a PS3), and never compliments me unless I give him the bait to do so. Sometimes I just feel unappreciated. The only time he really tries is when he feels there is the threat of another man or than I am upset with him. I do not do anything to make him jealous, when I tell him I am hanging out with a guy friend (whom he is also friends with, and knows that me and this guy are like brother and sister, AND that we were hanging out with a group of people).

What can I do to let my boyfriend know I feel unappreciated?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Talk to him about it. It seems like he doesn't care about you if he did he would do something nice for you and not go out and buy a ps3. If this keeps on going on you need to find someone else that will appreciated you and do nice things for you to.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Look, I'm not trying to be cynical or anything here, but what sounds like the solution and how he'll pay more attention to you is by just climbing on him and making him really want you. Don't have to tell him much, just show him that you want more romance in the old-fashioned way, and that he can get more romance in the bedroom if he does his part too.

    Which means, don't give him what he wants just yet, first make a silent deal by throwing little hints here and there. Talk about someone (you can even make it up) who did something romantic for their girlfriend and say you love that kind of stuff. He'll get the hint EVENTUALLY.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    no

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