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I am a bisexual girl and i was wondering...?

I am a 13 year old bisexual girl. I have known that i am bisexual for almost 2 years now (my 14th birthday is in less that a month) But recently i told my boyfriend that my ex-bestfriend had been more than just friends he totally freaked. He says that he doesn't know if he can love me anymore because of my beliefs, i like cried for hours. what do i do?

Update:

what? i didn't cheat on him! i dated her before him and he asked me why we were always together and stuff

Update 2:

he said he cannot handle having to compete with guys and girls to keep me anymore.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    If he is your boyfriend, he shouldn't make you cry because he doesn't like the fact that you're bi. I suggest breaking up from him. Look; you're bisexual, and that's one of those things you can't change. And if your boyfriend can't accept this, then you just shouldn't be with him anymore.

    It's either that, or he feels that you're not liking him anymore and he feels left out and he's going to get dumped by you so you can be with your ex-best friend. He may have felt like he was on the very edge and although he still liked you, he thought you and your best friend were going to be together and he just had to get dumped. You wouldn't do that, though, wouldn't you?

    Trying to tell your boyfriend about being bisexual and how it's so normal wouldn't change him so much. Just tell you that you love him, and ask if he still loves you, and say that no one will ever come in between the 2 of you. He most likely feels like he is about to get replaced, and this has nothing to do with the fact that you're bi.

    If he sounds like he doesn't like you as a bisexual, let go of him.

    Source(s): I have connections with bisexual people and I find it normal.
  • He isn't worth it. If he can't love you the same because you are bisexual, then break up with him. You need a boy (or girl) that is able to handle your belief or maybe he is hiding something.

    Source(s): Hope i helped -A.
  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Well, if he isn't mature enough to handle the way you are, you don't need him. I know I don't really care if a girl is bisexual or not, but apparently if he does, he isn't for you. You belong with whoever can accept that about you, and look past it.

  • 1 decade ago

    you have to move on. if he cannot accept you then he isn't worth it. what can you do about it. nothing, you can;t change his mind. talk to him and tell him if can't understand and still love you then it;s over. if he really loved you in the first place he still love you in the end. love doesn't change because of one piece of fact. unless it changes who you are completely. and being bisexual just changes who you like, you are the same person you just like girls and boys.

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  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Obviously guys find bisexual girls turn off cause then those girls like both guys and girls.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    "I have known that i am bisexual for almost 2 years now"

    Little girl, you don't know s#it... You're only 14... LOL... Yeah 14 is old... Try again when your at least 16, because until then you are just an immature little girl that doesn't know anything about sexuality...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You're 13. Who cares. You'll figure it all out as you grow up. Right now your tiny little brain is 12 years from being fully developed.

    What you guys have is puppy love anyway. You're not even mature enough to understand what real love is. All you understand is childish infatuation.

    Suck it up.

    Source(s): Common sense
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Why would you be doing that your boyfriend regardless that you are bisexual.

    that is still wrong to cheat even though your a girl and doing that with another girl which is a sin.

    I think he should break up with you. and leave your bisexual ***

  • ......
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Sexuality is not a belief. Just ignore him. Why would you cry over that?

  • 1 decade ago

    Move on. He's immature.

    Obviously if he loved you, he wouldn't care about your past.

    Don't be ashamed, and good luck.

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