I want my ex bf back but he has deleted me from facebook twice and has said he doesn't want me ever again!?

dear, i understand you love him badly,

but things cant be rebuilt by just love badly....

one should do anything for lover if the lover loves you otherwise its meaningless...

he even punch on the face of your reputation in his family, sorry to say but he is not taking you by heart, he had finished and there is no other way...

even if you manage somehow,i assure you, he will leave you again because he will not feel pinch in heart in 2nd time if its not in 1st time...

if possible leave him, i know its hard to forget but do it if you dont want to hurt again....

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Sounds like there's a lot you aren't telling but you didn't paint yourself in a good light there.

You initiated the break up as you say and then expect him to not feel hurt and come running back and then causing problems by talking to his parents and saying your pregnant without confirming it first?!

You should have done this in my opinion: You had a big fight. You wait till you both calm down and then slowly and calmly initiate conversation. But you kinda did a crazy chic there and scared the daylights outta him and his family.

Sounds like you may be more upset about how you handled the situation? At least you are trying to move on. No one said it was ever going to be easy. Also I don't think he would move on that quickly if he really liked you. If he's hurting he will need someone to talk to. As a guy he will also just want a fun non heavy relationship to lighten his spirits before finding someone he wants a committed relationship with.

The more you push and act desperate the more he will move away from you.

Really sorry it ended the way it did for you.

You live and learn as they say.

This may not be the answer you are looking for, but please move on. He has made it obvious that he doesn't want to be with you. Besides, if he is talking to other girls, and to his ex girlfriend, then you shouldn't want to be with someone who obviously doesn't love, or want to be with you. From what I can tell, you will be much better either by yourself, or with another deserving guy. Broken hearts suck, but I've been through one, and I can promise you that it will get better with time.

When you do begin another relationship, don't let something as small as Facebook take over your relationship. Its not that even serious. I will never understand why people take facebook so serious. Don't get me wrong, I'm on it, but geesh I don't let it run my life. I don't know all the bad things he has done, but I can tell you that you are wrong to hack into his account. Wrong is wrong no matter the circumstances. The signs are there honey. He has told you he doesn't want you, and his family doesn't like you. Let all of them go. Go find a guy who appreciates you, who comes with loving in-laws. I promise you, you will be much more happier. Don't sit around and be sad and depressed over a guy who is probably out having a good time with friends, family, or girls. He isn't thinking about you so don't waste your time thinking about him. Move on and be happy. Even if its by yourself. Good luck with everything sweetie.

Stop chasing him asap!!!

stop calling texting trying to be his friend on myspace facebook or whatever else. Leave him alone for the time being. Looking form the outside in, you deserve much better than this asswipe but if you want him you love him that's your business.

For now drop him focus on you- have nothing to with him flat out show him that life goes on without him. really reconsider if he is what you want and why. If you want him in three months- maybe six months cause he has a ton of animosity. Call him to meet up and be friends- do not sleep wit him do not talk about the relationship be friends show him what he is missing. From friends see if it goes anywhere from there.

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If you happen to be pregnant- tell him asap. Dont play games get doctoral proof and let him know that you are pregnant and what you want to do about it.

GOOD LUCK

How would you feel if someone was trying to force you to be with them, I doubt that you would be very happy nor would the relationship last. Most people I know, including myself, want to be with someone who wants, enjoys and cares about them. You two obviously don't mesh; he ended it how much clearer can he get. Leave him alone, you're making yourself look like a fool and will regret looking so desperate. That was really really really stupid of you to call his father. The fact that you may be pregnant (I doubt) doesn't mean that you will be together and tricks and entrapment aren't a good foundation for any relationship. Get help.

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Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better. But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction. So don't ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way. You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her

Listen hun, this is not doing you any good at all. The guy wants to move on from your relationship and you should just let him. I know it's hard since you obviously love him but just let him go. My brother had an ex girlfriend who was as persistant as you are and it upset him so much because he just wanted to be left alone.

Back off him and move on. Find someone who you're meant to be with.

First of all,what do you mean by negative comments? Are negative comments answers you do not like because it does not say what you want to hear? If you want help you are not going to get it by threatening the very people you are asking for help.I only answered you because I felt that you were in some pain and wanted to see if I can help ease your pain. Now to your problem. Based on all you have written,there is nothing you can do here except to move on with your life. This guy,your ex,has made it very clear that he no longer wants to have anything to do with you . For his own reasons ,he is done with you and the fact that his family does not like you only makes things worse. Irrespective of whether you feel that he hurt you,or that you did nothing wrong, or even with the story about being pregnant,you can not force anybody to love you or make them return the feelings you have for them no matter how deeply you might love them. That is the situation you have right now. As sad and as painful as it might be for you ,you just have to move on with your own life and try to find a guy who would love you back. With time ,that would happen. If you choose to continue to pursue this guy,you will just open yourself up to been used and abused. I am sure you do not want that so you need to accept things as they are. I wish you all the best.

ohh i'm sorry to hear that...

i understand completely, i was with this guy for 6 and half months and he acussed me of cheating and being pregnant with this other mans baby (which wasnt true). we had a major argument about 2 months after we broke up so i deleted him off facebook and then he started saying s**t about me so i messaged him and we had another argument with each other. then 1 month later he phoned me on a withheld number and said i pranked his mum, (crazy i know) and i had another argument with him. Then we stopped talking completely and then he made more s**t up and threatened my boyfriend and he walked pass me in the street and when we had the argument i said i hope you die and never speak to me again i hate you, i hate that you could do that to me! and then i saw him and he threatened my boyfriend again so i called him and told him to shut up or the police are getting involved for harrasment and he stopped then he got contact with me again today and threatened my cousin so i understand were your coming from and you will get that 'i want to speak to him and i want to sort it out with him' but believe me that dont like it and they will cause you more pain in doing that. So just try to forget him and believe you deserve better love xx

dont try and get a guy back saying u might be pregnant thats bullshit no wonder they think ur crazy, im not tryin to be rude but u gotta move on girl like that relationship is over and done with it might hurt but thats the truth, even if u do get back with him (which wont happen) if his family doesnt like u it wont last long trust me they'll talk so bad about u until he dumps u again