Does e-harmony work? I keep getting very similar types of men....?

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I signed up to e-harmony just for fun and filled out the questionnaire. Almost all of my matches are in the military. This caused me to freak out because I absolutely did not want to date a military guy. No offense to military guys, but everyone in my family is military or marries military and I wanted to break the mold. I grew up as an army kid and don't want that lifestyle any more. All the moving and dealing with wars is too stressful. However, all my matches are military. Do you think it's because I live near a military base (it's 30 min drive away) or do you think it's actually because my personality and values matches those in the military since I grew up in a military family? Should I give these guys a chance, or give up on e-harmony? I have a BA in physics and would like to get a masters to become a science teacher. Most of my matches aren't college educated. Most of the men I date generally aren't college educated, but I was hoping to meet some who were. I live in a town with three colleges (and a 4th 30 mins. away) so that surprised me that I wasn't matched up with any. What do you think? Is e-harmony accurate? Should I give these guys a chance?

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e-Harmony matches you with people youre compatable with according to your profile and the questions you answered. So if you absolutely do not want a man in the military, go back to those questions and find the ones you think couldve attracted someone from the military. For example, if you absolutely did not want a rich snobbish guy, change only the answers that made you sound like a high maintenance  woman. However, if each person takes it serious enough, e-Harmony can really put two people together that are amazing for eachother. So if you find that every question you answered cant be changed unless you were to lie, maybe you should give these military men a chance. No college education doesnt mean a mans worthless. Great things can come in small packages. 

Dont think youre only compatable with only military men though. You shouldnt have to feel as if you have to settle. Remember that non-military guys can have high values too. 
I wish you good luck! Keep trying, if e-Harmony doesnt work, maybe sitting in some college classes will hook you up with a nice guy =] 

**Myk

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Does e-harmony work? I keep getting very similar types of men....?

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