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Casual sex with newly bi friend?
My best friend asked me if it would be awkward for us to "experiment", purely for the sake that she's bi-curious, and I'm bi. At first I didn't feel comfortable with the idea, only because I didn't know how our friendship would be affected. After a lot of reassuring I gave in.
Now she's come out as bisexual, (even though she's never been with a guy.) The problem is, it seems like she only wants to be bisexual with me. She won't tell anyone her sexuality, which I can understand because her family are a bunch of strong Catholics, and most of her friends are from her church. She claims our friendship is strong enough to have casual sex here and there.
I don't know if she just wants to have casual sex because she can't come out and get an actual girlfriend, or if it's because she likes me more than a friend, (I hope not.) She's really very sweet, and usually doesn't argue with what I say, but she's very insistent on us having a sexual relationship. I, on the other hand, want a romantic relationship, not a closet one, and not with my best friend.
I've royally F-cked up. How to I straighten this out without losing our friendship? Is our friendship beyond repair?
2 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
You have to tell her what you want. Otherwise things are going to get worse and your friendship will be perpetually ruined. At first I'm sure she's going to be hurt since you will be rejecting her but if you two really are such good friends I'm sure she'll forgive and you'll be comfortable around each other again but no more sex.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
i wouldn't recommend having casual sex if you want to still be friends when one of you stops wanting casual sex. you are under no obligation to have sex with her because she tells you (and only you) that she's bi, talk to her about it. i know my friends would love to experiment with a girl, but they value my feelings and will hence never ask me.