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Boyfriend vs Facebook Password?
was talking on yahoo last night to my boyfriend whos in a whole different country with school. during the conversation he started to tell me how women are crazy coz my friend mentioned to him that she was trying to get her boyfriends facebook password. apparently her decision did not please my boyfriend. lol. - anyway, so as a joke im like yeah now i want yours and his exact words were "LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL you must be out of your mind" - now i was just joking but then because of his answer we got into a huge fight, his like i dont think we're that serious, yet he says he loves me and calls me his girlfriend and we talk about getting married someday and im going to meet his parents soon, yet its not serious enough for the bloody password????? i tried to tell him this but he just didn't get it. his like so just because i dont give you my password i dont love you and you dont trust me? needless to say we were arguing for ages, to the point were we broke up. i think. lol.
am i over reacting? his 25 and im 20 but i can admit im a little immature, blame daddy hehe . but still there was no reason for him to act like that.
any advice would be great, im done askign me mates they keep getting me into more trouble with their advice lol.
thanks bunches xxxx
7 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I wouldn't trust anyone with my facebook password...
because first of all there's no point of anyone having my password
2nd point because I have some really close friends, and if I post a comment like "whats everyone hows your day" or something like that, automatically they would think I got lucky last night.
I trusted my best friend to log out my face book account, and he posted "God is Awesome"
I was extremely pist off, because now everyone thinks I'm like a Saint, and they end up commenting on my post for something I didn't even know about.
this is why I don't trust anyone with my password not even my best friend, knowone! now why would I give it to my girlfriend?!?
I can easily hack into my girlfriends account but I respect the social privacy of her life.
One time I was pist of at my sister for posting me a comment, and I was going to throw eggs at her or any type of revenge, then later on I realized it was only her boyfriend using her account.
this is exactly my point we own have our own accounts.
- 1 decade ago
Yipes!
This is a delicate subject, as I have a friend who went thru the exact same scenario, but she actually DID figure out her boyfriend's password & accesses his Facebook all the time.
I will say this about the whole password thing. Men are secretive, period. My boyfriend & I have been together for 12 years & he still acts funny about little things like his cell phone. If I use it to make a call he wants it back right away & I've gone thru it before & deleted #s of girls even if I didn't know whether or not they were "just friends". I don't think it has to do with being immature. It's about being insecure. Which I self-admittedly am. I am very self-concious!
However--
Men like, need, & want that "boundary" where they feel like they have their territory. It's just a man thing. They like, need, & want to feel like they are in control at all times & that again is just a "man thing". No matter how much you gripe & moan, unfortunately he probably won't give you his password. But dont' take it personally, if it were ANY other woman he wouldn't He may or may NOT have anything to hide... If he is being unfaithful, you WILL find out. So, don't worry about that & don't take it personally. Again, it's not you, it's him.
One thing I've noticed about men & woman from my personal experience is this: we (women) have a mindset that if there is "nothing to hide" then it shouldn't be a problem for them (men) to let us see their cell phones, or look over an email, have their facebook password. Because in our eyes, IF THERE'S NOTHING TO HIDE IT SHOULDN'T BE A PROBLEM. I would have no problem letting my boyfriend see my cell phone, read my emails, textmessages, look at my facebook page, etc....
but for some men that is a great intrusion & feels like it's crossing the line into their private world.
I will say this about his reaction... it was a bit much with the big'ol laughter & the "you must be out of your mind" statement. That would have rubbed me the wrong way too, b/c such a reaction does imply that he may have something to hide or that he is overly defensive, which is just annoying.
I know it's annoying & somewhat hurtful b/c you probably feel like if you guys are together & if you are his girlfriend then there should be no problem, but he obviously feels otherwise. Sometimes as women we have to pick our battles. I hope things work out & remember: everything done in the dark comes to light so if there is a "secret" he's keeping, the creep will be discovered.
I hope things workout for you two & I really would try not to take it personally. Men are a different breed. What is a small thing to us, is a huge deal to them. It's just how their bred.
- 1 decade ago
What you should do first is try to improve your grammar a little so it's not an eyesore to read. Seriously, I'm not sure why I even bothered reading that.
Secondly, why in the hell would you want his facebook password? Are you that insecure that you need to snoop behind his back?
- 1 decade ago
yeah u over reacted. That is not really a way to prove love or trust. for your own good its better not to ask for such things, act like you dont care and it will be given to you. I think you should apologise to him. He should apologise too.
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- 1 decade ago
I dont know why u would even want it.. I dont give my password out to anyone.. and i wont give my bf my password until he becomes my husband.. it aint worth it.
- ALv 71 decade ago
Why on earth should he give you his password? I think you have a cheek even jokingly asking for it then to get ar*y when he won't give it to you!
- Anonymous7 years ago
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