Why is having sex with the hubby a chore?

Lulu, if you don't have sex with me, civilisation itself will collapse and all the kittens will cry!

because not everyman is as good as i am!!! lol j/k

but really its because the new wears off and they have gotten comfortable with the routine...they need to stop giving it up so easy and make there man understand that they have to work for it and do it right...I was married for 7 yrs together for 10...recently divorced (my choice) but she never once complained about anything....you have to do new and exciting things, try new stuff, do something you've never tried before or do it somewhere you've never done it before, get the adrenaline going. you would be surprised what that does to a womans sex drive...she'll be wanting it at times and places that are unheard of :) literally pick her up from a bar like you dont know each other(have her/him meet you there after work or something), get into to some role play/drive out to the middle of nowhere and do it in the backseat of the car, give him head while hes driving... use some ice/lubes/wine,etc... yea thats right i said use wine...and dont drink it out of the bottle or glass drink if off her breast/back/butt/belly button (whatever floats your boat) man i could go on for days talking about ideas and stuff that i've done...don't settle for the usual "hun, you wanna?" tell his *** NO!!! make him earn it! and if hes not interested and strays..your in the wrong relationship anyway...

I have come to realize that the women who complain about the guy being boring and its just a job to have sex with him if its to that point give him your consent to get it elsewhere

Your wasting his time and yours but this could be your way of getting something else you want through manipulation and ruse either way if I thought you were doing this I would have a girl friend on the side in about a half an hour yes its that easy

As for me, sex with my husband has never been a chore, I absolutely love every minute of it. The problem for some women is that there is only a minute or two to enjoy it! Lol! I have a friend who hates sex with her husband because her husband is only interested in his needs, and not pleasing her. He does the act with no foreplay, no romance, and no loving touch. He just expects her to be ready to go whenever he is. He grabs her boob and twists it, and expects her to be turned on. He does it, and then rolls over and goes right to sleep. She says she feels like she could be a tree with a hole in it, and that would be good enough for him. She will stay up really late until she's sure he's fallen asleep, and try to sneak in bed without waking him up, that's how much she dreads sex with him. I feel so sorry for her and other women who are married to clod's like that.

They've lost the spark and the sex is very routine and boring. They have no imagination. Fantasy and role play are great at spicing up a marriage. Pretend you're married to other people and are having a torrid affair. Go out and pretend to be a strange guy picking her up in a bar. You get the idea...

you are just with the wrong men, and sometimes its the womens fault people need to talk and learn what each other wants and prefers in the sex department, if you dont then you both can become routine and boring talk to ur partner be bold and blunt tell them what you want and like

Its because the husbands have tired of begging to approach the throne and have ceased being creative.

It is fully the result of one way sexuality.

If your sex life is boring look in the mirror.

Its probably that person's fault.

ah hahaha listen to dr. H2o

It shouldn't be a chore really, but when you have a full time job, housework, kids and their troubles, by bed time staying awake long enough to be amorous could very well feel like one more chore at the end of a long day.

I dont find it a chore for me...

i enjoy sex with my husband very much ;p

because its too routine, and somewhere it has got boring.

Take a break from each other and trust me, if you love each other, the distance apart will make the heart grow fonder.