have u every been afraid?

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of being married or living with someone for yrs..then one day they decided they don't love u anymore..
I mean I know a marriage takes work..I been married a few times ..I thought I really love my Ex enough to marry them then a few yrs later we are divorced. I just wish there was something we could do to make sure that never happens agian. I know no one every go's into a marriage thinking Im only going to be married 2 yrs ..Do u all got in suggestions or have you every thought about this..
I know its life & things happen..

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Hey practice makes perfect... you just need more practice.

Anonymous · Answer

Its not a fear, but it is definitely something that crossed my mind.

I always ask my husband to at least give me a chance to fix something I am doing wrong or to begin to do something I am not doing, etc, that way its not just like they wake up, wake you up and say "i can't do this anymore".

There is really no way to assure someone doesn't wake up with a change of heart, but you can't live in that fear. I guess you have to make it so you could survive just in case that person leaves. I mean I love my husband and I would do anything for him but I would not die or give myself a bullet if he left.

Anonymous · Answer

Just don't get married so when that time comes, it only takes you an uhaul and a day to get out of it!!

Dear Jane... · Answer

Every day...wish I knew what to tell you.  Sad that young people these days have to feel that way/be scared about commitment way too often.

csucdartgirl · Answer

Look back at the failures you have had and think about what went wrong and what you could do to avoid those scenarios to be relived.

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