Guys: If she did, why would your woman cheat on you?

I have always felt that if my wife ever cheated, it would be for an understandable reason. Most worthwhile women don't go out and cheat for no good reason. I have tried to be a good husband as a result so that she will never feel the need to seek affection elsewhere. Usually a woman cheats out of a lack of understanding, communication and respect in her relationship. Hopefully I can avoid pushing my wife to do something like that and instead help her stay happy and comfortable in our marriage. Take care.

my wife cheated on me two years ago for a couple of reasons.

1. She is in extremely great shape and I let my self go .

2. I married her when she was really young so she didn't have much before we married.

3. i have problems in the sack

4. she became totally enamored with the young guy at the gym.

Those were some of the reasons but i am sure there were many more.

a person cheats because there is something missing in the relationship.

I think it's due to things that are missing in her relationship--- respect, communication, being cared for, etc... Things that should be in every relationship.

Cause I'm too controlling and jealous and she lacks self control?

She doesn't want to be with me and doesn't have common courtesy to tell me

if guys knew, wouldn't they attempt to prevent it?

looking for more romance... like more caressing