cheated on my girlfriend - she can't get over it?

The smart thing to do is to let this girl go. Clearly, you don't care much about her and you just want to date casually and have fun. She is looking for kids and therefore a commitment - release her so she can find the right guy.

Wow. So, it seems as though you don't really care for her anymore. Therefore, move on. Sit down and talk with her and be HONEST. If you aren't prepared to settle down with her, break it off before a child does get involved. She deserves the truth. It is your business not the families. If she wanted to talk to someone, she should have went to a friend or her family member. She has every right not to trust you. It is hard to forgive and forget. It seems that she can't move on and you are not even in the relationship anymore. You both need to have a serious talk because it doesn't seem as though you two really want to be together anymore. Don't stay in a relationship for the pure fact of being comfortable. Good luck to you both.

Do u understand what shes going thru? She cant trust u, when u do that in hr head it means that u had no respect for her and she doughts your love for her. She feels that your not content with just her. I relize u need attention but u need to get it in a healthy different way. Could u and hr get into a hobbie together? or a sport? Why dont u pick up a class at a local college or over the internet, what im trying to say is u need to stay busy so u dont have so much time to fantasize. And stay away from temptations the girls u pick up on r just as lonely and mixed up as u r.

It sounds like you already made up your mind and you are just living with this girl. You already drifted apart which is why you cheated on her in the first place.

Its going to hurt her like hell but its not fair to her if you just keep her around and arent really all that happy to begin with, that makes it unfair to you to.

I would probably end it rather than resort to cheating on her, no sense being together if you arent even into it. Maybe you need time apart.

Also women talk to family about their problems. I would find it hard not to talk about it if mine were to cheat on me and get caught, especially if he denied it most of the time.

It makes no difference how you were raised, you already know that cheating is wrong other wise you wouldnt have denied it, right?

I can't tell you right now it's not going to work out. Firstly she wants kids but you don't, she probably wants to settle down and get married one day but you seem to have commitment issues, you seem to be in an open relationship with her but she obviously does not approve of that. If you feel so trapped in this relationship then the only way is is to talk to her about it and figure out what you two want from each other and expect from this relationship.gl

nicely after the toddler is born, you may verify to work out if this is yours, i think of best now you may pass and finally end up, only have sometime for your self, if evidently the toddler isn't yours, then you definitely and additionally you in basic terms understand that your no longer obligated to stay along with her and help raised her baby, in case you opt to then this is you, yet you do no longer could desire to help her develop a baby which you probably did no longer help convey into this international. yet another ingredient is which you will't are looking forward to if this baby is yours or no longer, being that she slept around whilst nevertheless napping with you, "this is gross" yet in any case, only because you pull out does no longer propose that she wont get pregnant the two, yet whilst she did no longer use risk-free practices with the different dudes, then you definitely could pass get examined too, i do no longer could desire to tell you this, yet i think of you deserve in basic terms slightly yet or greater then something somebody greater advantageous. desire that this enables. xoxo

sorry, cheating is wrong no matter what. why didn't you just tell her she was being kinda bitchy and tell the truth about how you weren't thinking seriously about marriage and kids? it would of hurt her feelings, but its better than what you did. why did you even move in with her? because it sounds like you two are on completely opposite levels. if you really cared about her you would of at least tried. so i would just end it and let it go.

You bought a house with a girlfriend? Then you cheated on her?

I'm sorry but were you dropped on your head when you were born?

you should have NEVER EVER CHEATED!!!!!!!!! and she shouldnt have to get over it!! she has all the right in the world to be mad/pissed off and jealous!! and just so you know..she'll NEVER "GET OVER IT" you dont "get over" that. your girlfriend deserves better. and im sorry im not being very helpful but i just hate cheaters.

Sell the house. Ditch her. Move somewhere she won't be able to find you.