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I have a desire of wanting a boyfriend. Should i have one?

I've been single for a while now. I really need a boyfriend. What should i do?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Look at the people you surround yourself with and ask yourself if you could see yourself spending your life with any of them. If the answer is yes to any of them, ask to get to know them better. Just keep it casual at first. But eventually, he may become fond of you (or maybe he already is). You're just going to have to be patient. It can be difficult to find good people to date. Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    You should really sit down with yourself and examine the REASONS you need a BF.

    If the reasons are good enough then move forward with the search for someone that matches your needs.....a quality guy that cares for you and overlooks you worst faults......you'll do the same thing back.....

    If the reasons are not good, spend time doing something else important and leave the BF idea for awhile......It may just be your hormones screaming for some physical contact that you'll have to live with and control. Maybe you are in school and you devote yourself to your studies.

    In the scope of life, BFs are not important unless they are a practice to find your HUSBAND.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Don't get one. If you only want one because you think it's normal or because everyone else has one, you have the whole thing wrong.

    If the situation comes up, take advantage, but don't go looking for it. Unless you're aging and you feel you want to be in a long term relationship.

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't go out with anyone who you don't like.. don't date someone just because you want a boyfriend, it never ends well

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