Why has myspace privacy change?

I was going to delete my myspace account as i haven't used it for ages but i used to use it alot and i have some nice photo albums and stuff on there which, occasionally, i like to share with friends.

I now have someone who is seriously getting on my nerves, so, to shut him up i added him as a friend, AFTER, i thought i had set my account viewable to 'me only', which is one of the options i had when i upgraded.

This has shut him up, but, there are other details which, i would rather not go into which is really bugging me, and I am slightly worried that if i do delete him he'll go crazier than what he already is.

How can i make sure he doesn't see any of my friends, photo's, blogs, comments etc without doing this?

He has also put me as his top friend for all the world to see, and I don't want this to be the case either.

basically, all i really want to know is............ WHY can't i have myspace set to ME ONLY?

Cheers