Found intimate photos of ex-girlfriends on fiances computer...?

everybody has a past and sometimes it is nice to reminisce. As long as he isn't using the photo's for personal gratification then I would let it go. As for the cabinet...idk, i just don't think there should be things that are off limits in a relationship. Lord knows what he could be hiding but if it is something that could change your mind about being with him then you should know what it is.

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You just seem secure with your relationship. Not a bad thing. If you trust him and dont think he would do anything to hurt you, then you got a good thing with this guy. But I will have to say that if you find out he does do something that he isn't supposed to, you cant say the signs were never there. Either way I have been with my husband for 6 years and Im not that secure at all, more power to you hunny!!!

Delete the naked pictures. If he has the nerve to ask you about it, tell him you don't know what he's talking about. I'm not sure that I'd worry too much about the locked file cabinet. Its not like he's keeping hookers in there.

By "found" you must have meant snooping around due to your insecurities and lack of trust. Granted it ended up being warranted but what does that say about the trust level prior to finding these pictures?

yeah I bet he does keep a lock on stuff...cause you are apparently a snoop!

OK...is he still seeing any of those girls?? did he ask any of them to marry him?? did he move any of them into his space like he did you????

why are you stressing over old photo's when its apparent that he made a choice and his choice was YOU?? don tbe so insecure about trivial things....at least the photos are tucked away and not on display and flaunted in your face.....thats cause he respects and cares about YOU!

and yeah...you would be waaay wrong to ask him to get rid of his momentos just because you are insecure...I wouldnt go there if I were you. Just move on...and pick your battles wisely.

On to the next one : ) Good Luck

I don't know that I'd get rid of naked pictures of an "ex" either (not that I have any) & I have no intention of cheating on my wife.

I don't see why he can't keep photos of his past for heaven sake.

Doesn't mean he's sleeping with them. He's just keeping his spank bank full.