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I am 25, 5'5 115 lbs natural 32DD, everybody tells me I am gorgeous, but my husband hates having sex with me.?
We dated 5 yrs, been married one. I am in my sexual prime and I go weeks with out getting any. I have been told by two ex's, that I was the best in bed they ever had. I have only been with 4 people. He has been with almost a 100. I am upset because I was good. I thought it would be best to somewhat save all the sex for marriage. Now I am stuck and never getting laid!
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- .Lv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
You're not "stuck" with anything...you can stay and accept it, try to fix it, or divorce...
...your call...
- cjlpn3Lv 41 decade ago
Maybe every one lied to you. Maybe you are not gorgeous and maybe you're not that good in bed. However, you do seem to think highly of yourself. Did you ever think that your husband might have some health issues related to this problem? Maybe you should step away from the mirror long enough to think of him and what might be wrong with his health.There is an old saying that beauty comes from within. Try creating some inner beauty and think about the physical problems that your husband might have that would cause him to be unable to perform in the bed room. Think of some one other than yourself. Try some compassion. He just might see the beauty in that enough to feel worthy of someone as gorgeous as yourself.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Have you tried being the one to bring sex up and instigate it?
Have you spoken to him about it? Communication is key in any relationship.
And if you're thinking about your ex's while dealing with a problem you have with your husband, there is a problem. And it doesn't matter what you look like or how large your breasts are, he may just not find you sexually compatible anymore, in which case you two need to talk and possibly see a sex therapist.
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- craig bLv 71 decade ago
Why would a guy give up FREE SEX with a beautiful woman?
Because it's easier getting it somewhere else. This does not mean an affair. In this day and age, it usually means porn.
For in porn, you are no longer needed. In fact, because you are REAL, you have a hundred strings attached that he does NOT want to deal with! Rather than meet you half way in resolution of marital strife and problems, he would rather disregard you all together........it's just easier that way!
Overall, you didn't marry a MAN. You married a little boy.
- dudeLv 71 decade ago
It can be true he's playing around. But sometimes having the equipment and knowing how to use it are two different things. Many "ugly" women are appreciated because they know how to use their assets. I suggest getting some porn to compare yourself with what's going on out there. You know, sex is learned and it's a skill; it is different on different people. A couple has to talk about their sex life and request changes if they feel unfulfilled. Sex is the utmost in vulnerability communication and laughter are crucial for it's enjoyment.
- MacGLv 71 decade ago
Is this a change in behavior from before you were married? (assuming you had sex before marriage) Is he cheating? If not, then demand that he see a doctor. And perhaps a therapist. Tell him simply that you love him and are concerned about his health-- I am guessing depression, of course. Good luck.
- Their mommy!Lv 61 decade ago
You could very well be gorgeous, but attitude effects sexual desire for someone.
If you do nothing but nag and whine at him, he probably won't be interested in having sex with you.
- 1 decade ago
What does this have to do with your chest size? Ever consider he is upset with you and taking it out on you by with holding sex? Seriously, it isn't only women who do this.
btw- Next time, give your eye color and hair color and we can call this an add for dating.
- 1 decade ago
My guess is that he is sleeping with more and more girls Seems like what he enjoys is just sleeping around having over 100 girls. He could also not be in the mood, something you say or something you do just might be your issue.