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i love my father's friend!!?

i am so in love with my fathers married friend but i know that his marriage is going really horrible and he doesn't even sleep together with his wife. he acts like he likes me and cares about me so much. i feel so happy and comfortable with him. the biggest problem is that i am 15 and he is 35. i don't mind it my parents will. i don't know if i should use my logic or my emotions. it is like him and the other people i like. i can't stand losing my parents but i want to be with him forever. i believe he is the one. please help me!!!

Update:

he is so good to me but i don't know how he loves me as a kid or else but i really do trust him.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    ah it smells like young love. Drop your feelings and move on. If he is having problems with his wife then what use is he for you. You are in america you have so much chances for a relationship with a descent guy that is your age. So I know it is easier said than done. But its for your sake and you will have to live that his loving him in sercet. Just go and talk to a consular and see if you can work on these feelings. CUz in time the do go away. Cuz i had feelings for a older guy and it took me awhile to get away and I also was in a relationship after awhile it ended up being nothing than a dirt bag dude that just wanted sex. So safe yourself the trouble.

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    1 decade ago

    First off, if you think that a relationship could work out between you two you are living in a fantasy land. I hardly doubt that he has feelings for you other than that of a family friend, or he'd be looking at jail time if ever he chose to act on them. don't even go there!! But if you, a 15 yr old kid,, end up able to breaking up a marriage, then I've damn well about seen it all!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    WRONG you are infatuated but not in love!! First of all he is married

    Second you are underage! He could go to jail you could be a homewrecker! Find people your own age

    This is wrong what you are even thinking about this!

    When ever he comes over Leave so you don't cause your self more heartache

    Get over him FAsT! Belive me you are young you will find yourself someone your own age if you don't you will ruin many lives. Mostly your own

    Best wishes do the right thing!

  • 1 decade ago

    I do believe that age isnt a factor, but if it is really meant to be then you two can wait on each other. If you are older, say 18, then your parents wouldn't be so upset about it, but 15? It is weird, and if you have sex then he can be charged with statutory rape, and is that what you want. If he really wants you like you want him then he can wait, but he could resolve things with his wife. Think logically, wait till your 18 to make a move.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Uhm no ! lols your just a crush that is so deep. But I know for a fact a 35yr old man won't have any intentions of having a relationship with a 15yr old girl and the fact that she is his best friends daughter.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Ew. Don't do anything you're 15 it's none of your business, and if he likes you he's a pedophile that will go to prison

  • 1 decade ago

    No your too young to even know what Love is........Let him go he is not the one, Sometimes it works but trust me you will be seeing him behind bars.....NO NO, if he was smarter he would leave you alone....Good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    Plsss believe in something else

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    not happening

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