i want this 9th grade dude to hate me! help!!?

welcome to the time when boys figure out their men and there are alot of pritty girls around. its going to suck for a few years but it gets better.

first off, do not hang out with other guysor persue other guys. this will make him jelous and persue you more.

hang out with your girl freinds and seperate youself as much as possible form him. You dont have to advoid him (unless he's trying to get your attension), but make sure you are always with someone else. if he tries to talk, leave. also tell you freinds (if he ever talks to them) that you dont want him around. say like he's a creap, scary, blah blah blah.

second, in order to get rid of him you will have to decend to a neanderthal level of communication. Its the only thing we, guys, understand. be very blunt and straight forwards. use clear body language and hand signs to say you dont want him. you can be a total ***** if you want but only as a means of last resort.

I fall else fails there are the school policies to go though but agian, means of last resort.

Well, you don't have to make him hate you. Just give him the present back & tell him that even though you appreciate the thought, you're just not interested in him. That itself might make him dislike you. If he continues to be persistent then there's really nothing you can do because you'd have already told him that you don't like him like that. The best thing to do is confront him, so personally return the present & then tell him yourself. If you send a friend to do it, he might just take it as a sign that you're being shy & he'll probably think you like him. Boys are odd creatures, hahah. Good luck, & I hope this helps.

Just tell your friend to tell that 9th grade guy that your not into him that way. Problem Solved (: Theres no need for him to hate you. Ohh or you could tell her to tell him to give you time to think bout it. Because in a couple months from now maybe you'll be ready. Good luck

Well first of all you should be totally sure that he love/likes you (not as a sis) then when your sure, meet him tell him that u dn't love him and you are not ready and if he didn't piss off tell him that you hate him and that he is a loser infront of his friends , now offcourse he will give up.

by the way im in the 8th gr. too :)

hope i helped

Hahaha, why do you want him to hate you? Just tell your friend to tell him that you don't like him and don't want a relationship. Just ignored him and continue doing your thing in school and don't worry about him, you don't need him to hate you to stop him liking you, just make sure he knows you arent interested and he will stop. Good Luck!

Just tell him. If you really like me, then you will stay strong, get a job, and work hard to make money legally. Right now I am not into you. If you can understand me, then maybe we can be something later in life.

Return the gift with a little note (if u don't like confrontation) and tell him you're not interested but thanks anyway. Having him hate you might be a bit far but if you want that, then be brutally honest about what you think of him in your note or your talk if you choose that way.

If you get another gift, either refuse it and tell the person who handed it to you to tell the dude that you're not interested at this moment. Or tell one of your friends to get him to talk to you so you can tell him you're not interested. Anyway you may end up being his friend, so good luck.

return the gift/present(which he gave to u) to him. If u wish , attach a personal message with that gift...saying something like don't disturb me........or whatever that comes in your mind

if he asks you out, just tell him that you're not interested in dating...not yet. i don't think you should make him hate you though. something bad might happen lol...hope i helped! =D