For an erotic spanking, what would you use on your spouse or significant other to make their cheeks red?

While I'm more familiar with spanking females, I imagine that the concepts aren't TOO different. Therefore, I'd recommend the hand for erotic spankings, as the contact is more intimate. As a secondary option, go for leather implements, like straps or belts. There's something about leather that adds an erotic tone to the spanking. Plus, taking off a belt is one step closer to having someone naked.

I've seen lots of porn where the guy was watching the girl shower or undress or something, and she catches him and makes him do whatever she wants or else she'll tell people what he did.

As for the object, this isn't my area of expertise but wouldn't a had make it just as red? I'm sure you've tried that already though... Wow this is actually a very difficult question... Nope I can't think of anything better than the ping pong paddle. Oh an oar might be good but it'd take more energy to swing it and you'd need more space

Hi Arkie...

Not sure this falls in to the marriage divorce scene.... oh well.

They have shredded whips made of very thin leather that should suffice. A regular old leather belt, a slat of wood (1/4 inch plywood is good), telephone cord... just about anything will ruby their cheeks up. The secret is in not WHAT you use, rather in how hard you use it.

Uhhh... So I've heard...

For me personally, I like my spouse's hand. I like that a lot better because it were to use something like a paddle, it might the other person a bit defensive. I would also try a place called Velvet Box. I know the hand works best for me personally.

Well, I suppose you could use a wooden spoon, a ruler, the ping pong paddle or if you are feeling particularly saucy, try a squash raquet and see if you can make a grid.

(not my thing but you enjoy)

Oh, my! I have no experience in this, but ping pong paddle sounds safest.

I have no experience in this. But, I'll guess a bare hand would be best. That way you know exactly how hard you are hitting.

A fly-swatter...it stings and makes the red marks without causing too much damage.

Have fun kids!!!

If was YOU administering the paddling Arkie, I'd like it if you used your bra or undies!!!

Nothing quite like your hand.

It receives as well as gives.

I was going to ask where you've been but I guess I know now........ :-)