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Told her I like her ... Now What?

I told her I like her last night but she doesn't gave me an answer. she said she will call me today and talk about it.

If things isn't going the way I planned (hoping she have feeling for me too) - should I continue to show her that I really like her and not going to give up easily

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Persistence. I'm having the same trouble right now. Never give up, no matter what the odds. The longer you stay the more and more she'll understand that you aren't just a guy searching for a new flavor, you're there to be a friend. One of the reasons many guys can't find the one they want is because they give up too easily.

    "Oh she shot me down, she's out of my league, etc."

    These are just barriers built by those too scared to stick it through and see how things go.

    Just keep confident, be yourself, and never give up.

    Godspeed, mate.

    Source(s): Going through it right now. =/
  • 1 decade ago

    It appears she never thought about you and her. She may need some time to think about it. Now you have to let her respond in her own time and respect her response. You never should push yourself on a person who is not attracted to you. Oh, in the movies they say – no don’t give up – fight for her, but the reality is that ethically it is not right and it usually leads to heartbreak and disappointment, not to mention it could end up with legal problems for you if you push just a little too hard.

  • -_-
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    You probably threw her off guard when you said that.She's probably try to decide if she would want to be in a relationship and if she wants to risk your friendship. My suggestion is to pop in a movie, get some popcorn/snacks, and keep your mind off it for a while. I'm sure she'll call soon but also it is Labor Day weekend so if she has family in town that's something to consider if she hasn't contacted you back.

  • 1 decade ago

    just wait for an answer. If she says no however just politely accept her decision. Tell her that you respect her call and go with it. Don't lost your friendship though. Trust me there are plenty of other fish in the sea, and I really mean plenty! If she doesn't mind you can ask her why so next time you court a girl you can fix your mistake. That's as simple as it gets

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  • 1 decade ago

    it really depends on what she says when you talk to her. like if she shows that she either does have feelings for you, or that she might not have feelings for you yet, but she is still interested.. then you should continue showing her that you have strong feelings for her. but if you talk to her, and she isnt really instrested at all, and she doesnt want to be any more then friends, then maybe just show subtle hints that you like her, but dont act like you like her too much because that might get annoying to her, if she doesnt feel the same way.

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  • 1 decade ago

    No, if she tells you she doesn't like you back, give up, otherwise you might lose her as a friend too by getting really annoying

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't give up, just wait for her to tell you her answer and if she won't talk to you, thats her loss. but stay friends and try to make her smile, and she'll start liking you back :)

  • 1 decade ago

    You wait, the choice is hers. She either likes you or not, don't pressure her or try to convince her. All you can do in wait and not be a pest.

  • 1 decade ago

    i hate to be the one to tell you this, but, if you like a girl, and she doesn't like you, she's probably going to ignore you and just think lesser of you. i say that if she doesn't like you, you should just kind of keep clear of her fo a couple of months.

  • 1 decade ago

    If she doesn't call today, she's probably not that into you. I would move on at that point.

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