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My best friend is thinking about moving to another school (kind of long, sorry)?
This the second time that I post this because the first time nobody answered.
well, i was talking to my best friend, a guy friend, the other day. I asked him how the football game went (he's on the varsity football team), he said that we lost, so i told him that we had to step our game up, then he said "I'm thinking about leaving the school because of something that's happening" then i asked him what was wrong but he never replied.
When he told me this I started crying because he's my best friend, and i have a little crush on him.
We have been best friends since 7th grade and now we're in 9th grade.
I love his hugs, he's the only guy that treats me right, and he actually listens to me when i talk to him about a problem I'm having, unlike the other guys, and I just love talking to him.
But if he leaves I'll never get to see him again because we don't live in the same city, he's a guy, and he's dark skinned, and my family doesn't like that I took a picture with him at prom, they don't like him because he's dark skinned, so obviously I won't get to hang out with him.
I'm going to miss him so much. What should I do so that I won't be so sad all the time whenever his name and the idea that he's leaving pops into my mind
Thanks in advance to anyone who tried to help me
2 Answers
- Ok...Lv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
The fact that he is dark skinned doesnt figure in any of this; you can have friends of any color, and you should. Now, with that said...
Having a crush on your friend who is a guy, will only lead to heartache for girls. He didnt respond to your question, because he doesnt want to, for whatever reason. If you really are his friend, you care about his happiness, wherever he wants to go, whatever he wants to do, and who ever he wants to do it with. If I were you, I would either tell him somehow that you have feelings for him that are more than a friend and see how he responds, or just wish him well and tell him to keep in touch. It's either one of these two, and there isnt any in between. I know you may not like this answer, but it is the truth. THis is why girls have to learn that you cannot be friends with a guy. Guys serve a purpose in your life, and you theirs. But friendship should be forever. You have to decide which is more important to you.
Good luck.
- ?Lv 61 decade ago
tell him how you feel about him leaving.
and maybe talk to him about why he's decided to go.
if he does leave you can still keep in contact by phone or internet or whatever. i moved over to the UK when i was 7 and was soo horrible leaving all my old friends and now im 17 i still talk to four of my friends in america. technology is good for bad things like this.
good luck and hope he doesn't move for you! :)
