I'm I Stuck up if i refuse to talk to ghetto Girls??

They may consider you to be stuck up, and that would be their right. You also have the right to not pursue or involve yourself with someone you perceive to be of no interest to you. You dont have to speak to them condescendingly, which I assume that you dont. You are making the right decision. Considering the career path you have chosen, you must also consider all other aspects of your life and how you will be perceived because of your choices.

Do you think Obama would have been elected President of the United States, if Michelle Obama was a ghetto-girl type?

Well, unless you attend a crappy college they can't be THAT ghetto. They're intelligent enough to attend the same school you do. And you do sound a bit snobby, by the way. I am a graduate of college and law school and I am now a trial lawyer. I practice in a huge city with a lot of people you would probably classify as "ghetto." However, I do not have anywhere near the attitude you seem to have towards them. I'd just like to remind you that you may end up treating some of these people in the future and you really need to learn to have respect for people, even if they talk and act differently than you. I'm not saying you need to be their best friend, but you do have to show basic respect and not act like you are better than they are. Just an observation.

No, that doesn't make you stuck up. Everyone has their preferences and yours does not include "ghetto" girls. I would never talk to a "ghetto" man or a "thuggish" man. You're entitled to your own attractions and they aren't it. I get people telling me I'm stuck up all the time. That's not it at all. It just takes a certain kind of person to be important enough for us to give them the time of day. You can turn someone down without being rude. A simple, "I'm not interested" has always worked for me. Of course they'll be upset, and may act even more ghetto, which is nothing more than a reminder as to why you don't date "ghetto" girls in the first place. I put quotations around the word(s) b/c everyone has their own definition of each. I completely understand yours. =)

Maybe by showing no interest what so ever you are appearing stuck up. Treat people as equals man. You don't have to hook up with anyone you don't want but it doesn't mean you should treat them like trash.

You seem pretty excited about yourself having mentioned your schooling and if you really do come from the hood, I would stereotype youins pin uncle Tom rather than an inspiration to the people from your same background. You are trying to better your self and are making good decisions to improve your life but you are still just a person and you are no better than anyone else.

Showing people common courtesy is another way to improve your self. Don't be racist or eliteest. Are you offended by being approached? Be an example to others instead of a jerk that is high and mighty because you made choices in life that others have not. Congrats on med school. I hope you get a practice in Beverly Hills so you don't have to deal with your own people.

I also don't like holding conversation with ghetto people. I'm sort of afraid of them. The other day a pair of ghetto girls were behind me and I stepped back accidentally and they looked at me from head to toe and I betcha anything they thought "ohhhh hell no! This b!tc.h did not just stepped on my Jordan's"

lol They gave an attitude that would have Big Show running up the hills. lol I was just praying that they wouldn't do anything because I was with my bf. lol

Anyways it's understandable.

They are quite intimidating.

I think that you are stereotyping them as "ghetto" based on the fact that they speak in ebonics?? I don't know any ghetto girls who made it to med school, but I know plenty of people who choose not to speak proper english on a regular basis. That goes for all races and classes of people. Are you stuck up? Not necessarily.

The real questions is... are you a troll?

Ghetto girls in med school? Interesting.

update: OK, I got what you're saying.

If you are genuinely not interested in them, then why do you care what they think? Also, don't send mixed messages. Be direct and tell them you are not interested. There may be negative feedback but who cares? You're doing your thing.

Yes, if you refuse to at least speak to them politely when spoken to, you are being judgmental on appearances and snobby. Now if you don't wish to associate with them outside of school, well then that's your business. But if you are planning on becoming a doctor, you are going to have to see beyond a person(s) as "ghetto" no doubt. We all deserve to be treated equally with medicine and attention pertaining to injuries and maladies methinks, not preferentially according to your own private beliefs.

You're not stuck up. You just have class. Nothing to worry about. Ignore the ghetto girls who will find out pretty quickly that 'ignorant' behavior gets them nowhere! Nuff said? ;)

avoid ghetto girls of all races.. not just black.

They are to blacks what trailer trash is to us whites.

However.. it is ok to date urban asian girls who are traditionally asian by culture (and who are not black cultured). They raise very few criminals and, themselves, have one of the lowest crime rates of all races of female in america. If you pickup a paper and read about a brutal murder of an elderly woman by a woman....... the culprit is going to be black, white or hispanic. Rarely asian american female.

Japanese american females are 100000x better than korean american females.

I know from a lifetime of experience. Of all asians.. japanese females and taiwanese are the most civilized compared to all other citizens of all other races.

Thats not racism. I have researched women/race statistics for a years now trying to find some reasons NOT to date asian oriental girls. Cant find it.

But.. avoid ghetto girls. All that is is trailer trash who cant afford a trailer.