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I think I have a crush on my friend...?
I have a friend named Di who's a bisexual, I'm a girl, she's a girl... I think I've started to develop a few feelings for her, in a more-than-friendly way. I've never told anyone I'm other than straight, but I think I may be bi, or bi-curious, or something. I think she likes me too, because she acts that way, but she has a boyfriend. Currently they're long-distance, because of work, and she's getting a little annoyed by it, I can tell, but they love each other. So, I have no idea what to do. Should I jump? Should I wait to see if the feelings are real? Or should I just be friends, nothing more? Because the boyfriend is also one of my closest friends.
I don't know, but I'll take your advices into consideration.
i would mind if you took pictures. but rest assured, i'm a fatass, so those pictures would be no good to you :))
4 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
i think u are probably bi-curious at least that's what it sounds like to me, in this situation i think u should wait and see where their relationship goes, and if it ends then tell her your feelings for her and be completely open with her, and if it doesn't end and they do stay together then just be there for her and be a good friend, maybe if something does happen to them later on then that could pay off in your favor.... whatever u do i hope it works for u because if u don't tell her your feelings it could be something you regret later on.
GOOD LUCK!!
Source(s): i was in that situation and we are both guys.... i didnt tell him my feelings and i moved, now i regret it more than anything and i will never know what could have been - 1 decade ago
Dude I'm going through the same thing. The more you try to deny whatever feelings you have the more will that feeling grow. It's hard to tell whether your straight or not anymore when you have this attraction for the same gender. I bet it's been eating you up inside huh? Like every longing minute you just wanna tell her but here's the thing dude.... don't. Just don't. What happens is when you don't know if you're bi or not, she's just going to tell you it's just a phase and you'll believe it. But really it's not.
- 1 decade ago
I can say without a shadow of a doubt that you are not bi I have had those feelings about other guys myself and I can tell you right now I am not gay. everyone at some point goes through this and either you choose to follow it or don't The only thing that can make you bi is you.
