hey demma, demma dilemma<3

I am at an art block and I am in dire need of a face to draw. it can be you or your friend or someone I just ask that you post a link to it and that it is not a celebrity. preferably not smiling either. btw if it is you and I draw it then of course I can send you the finished result.

My best friend recently stopped going to school, hasn't answered her phone, and hasn't been on facebook. Then, last week, she was admitted into the psych ward for attempted suicide. I don't know all the details; but I am visiting her tomorrow morning. How to help/what to say/what to talk about? I love her so much and I'm just shocked that she could do this. I'm one of two friends she's told about it.

My old debit card was stolen and I had it cancelled, but the information is still on iTunes. How do I stop iTunes from having that card? I don't know how to cancel it, and I need to get an app for my work. I don't have another card to replace it with, yet.

I have a friend named Di who's a bisexual, I'm a girl, she's a girl... I think I've started to develop a few feelings for her, in a more-than-friendly way. I've never told anyone I'm other than straight, but I think I may be bi, or bi-curious, or something. I think she likes me too, because she acts that way, but she has a boyfriend. Currently they're long-distance, because of work, and she's getting a little annoyed by it, I can tell, but they love each other. So, I have no idea what to do. Should I jump? Should I wait to see if the feelings are real? Or should I just be friends, nothing more? Because the boyfriend is also one of my closest friends.

I don't know, but I'll take your advices into consideration.

If you post yours, I'll edit and post mine later :D

And how did you lose it? Like, do you believe in "half-virgins" that only did oral sex but nothing more?

I noticed it when I was doing my makeup, near the corner of my eye and under my upper lid. It doesn't hurt, not even when I push on it, I hadn't noticed it until I was putting on eyeshadow. I wear makeup mostly every day, if that matters. I do notice that my vision is a little bit blurred. The bump is pretty small and wasn't there a day ago. The rest of my eye looks normal, not bloodshot or dry or swollen. There is no bump on my other eyelid.

What the hell is this? Do you reckon I should get it checked out? Or wait and see if it goes away?

Okay, so my boyfriend at the time was cheating on me with my best friend's sister. We were 19. She was 28. Then he texted me the time he was meeting her accidentally, and I just assumed he was asking me out for then and there. So I showed up and... Well, it just didn't go over like he thought it would :)

what about you girls and guys?

Okay, this is a little embarrassing. But I'm not really as vain as you are thinking. But when I was young I had cancer and now... I basically have no breasts. I'm not going into that. But my doctor recommended that I look into breast implants. Then I watched an episode of MTV's show True Life (okay. It's dorky.) and a woman was talking to a doctor about an organic boob job, for lack of a better word. Anyway, it was about they would take her own fat and inject it into the breast tissue, and it was as safe as removing a mole. Anyone hear of this??

Objectively speaking, on a scale from 1-10 how do you rate yourself?? How would others rate you??

NO, I am not anorexic. I'm in a school play, and my character is seen eating all this food. But I have terrible stage fright, and I'm afraid when we perform I won't hold it down. Also, I'm a vegan, and the script has me eating mainly animal products & meats.

I heard someone use this phrase and I'm not sure exactly what it means.

And please keep all the atheist/christian fighting elsewhere, thanks :)

Like if you don't want uyour ears to be gauged, can you just take out the plugs and will it just go back to normal??

My hair is almost naturally straight. But no matter what I do,this one chunk of my hair always frizzes and curls up!!!! Even if I straightened it over and over, this little bit will not straighten up. I really need help on this!!!!

The title isn't very clear, I didn't know how to phrase it shortly.

Ok: so, on the nutrition facts, the percents are for a 2000 cal diet. I don't eat 2000 csls in a day, I have about a 1500 cal diet. How would I change the percents? Also, how would the percents be for 3000? 1000? 500(yes I kno this is unhealthy, I'm not at all going to try this I'm just trying to get a clearer picture)?

I mean, when you get emotional, why is the body's natural reaction to well your eyes up with tears?

It's a weird question, I'm aware of that. And the story behind it is too long to go into--but we'd like something really interesting. We've been toying with the idea of a city name, like Gray Manhatten or Gray London. Also, do you like the name spelled better Gray or Grey?

I know, most of us prefer personality. But let's say they're the most wonderful person in the world, great personality, now what would LOOK perfect?

Also: guys, do you prefer tall girls? How tall?

girls, do you prefer muscular guys or thin guys?

10 Things Guys Should Know (As written by Demma :D)

1. Girls CAN get as jealous as you. And more.

2. It's not cute when you flirt with other girls, especially if they're attractive.

3. Holding hands isn't lame.

4. Every girl should eventually get 3 things from her boyfriend--a stuffed animal, one of your jackets/hoodies (not an old one, one that you would wear often), and a piece of jewelry.

5. Girls can and will get embarrassed easily.

6. Don't be an "Edward". No sane girl will want this. Anyway, a twilight obsessed girl won't go out with you; she's too busy waiting for a vampire.

7. Girls will be self-conscious. Accept it.

8. Teasing is cute. In moderation.

9. Instead of going on about her bad habits, tell her they're cute. You might not mean it, but she'll be happier.

10. Yes, girls like sensitive guys. To an extent. It's far more attractive if you're confident, but only show a touch of your sensitivity. Unless, of course, your girl asks you to be sensitive.

Hey, just chat me or email me at river.prescott.44@gmail.com

I'd like a nice guy or girl to talk to, no pictures or anything, to reassure me that all guys aren't tools and stuff....

I'll tell you the whole story if you want me to.