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guys!!! if your girl told you you needed to?

well, there is no easy way to put this and still keep it clean enough for public but I will try.

If you and your girl had a really great sexual relationship, like open and talk about everything, would you be hurt or offended if in a gentle manner she made a suggestion of how to change the way you pleasure her in a certain way so it would be more pleasureful for her. Would you feel like she was saying you weren't good enough.

remember, long time good open conversation relationship.... would you maybe feel a bit inadequate? I did this with my bf a few days ago and he has been standoffish ever since. Did I hurt his feelings?

Update:

very simple: a bit more moisture on the hands when dableing in certain areas.........

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  • 1 decade ago
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    It's hard to tell without knowing exactly what it is.

    But, if its just a different style or technique, I would want the girl to let me know, so that I can give her more pleasure.

    If it's something like personality, like "You need to be more assertive," that could rub a guy the wrong way, because you are critiquing who he is as a person.

    If it's something he can't control at all, like something about his body, then don't say anything. Basically, if its easy to change, go ahead. If its not easy to change, keep it to yourself.

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