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so should i kiss him or not?

so about 2 weeks ago my best guy friend told me to kiss him on the cheek, but i'm not used to that, i'm not girlie and i hang out with guys a lot so i say hi to them the way that guys say hi to each other. But i say hi to my best guy friend by hugging him, because he gives the most amazing hugs, it's probably because he's extremely tall. So yeah, he was playing around by putting his arm around me and saying, "give me a little kiss". But since i said no he just let it go, he's not that type that will keep little things like going on. But i mainly didn't do it because i'm not used to that, and partly because he has a girlfriend, but she doesn't go to our school. But now i regret not kissing him so since last week i've been trying to kiss him, but he has had to leave school right away, like he hasn't had time to hang back after school. but i really want to kiss him so that i won't keep beating myself up about not taking the opportunity to kiss him. (I know you're thinking right about now that i like him and that's why i want to kiss him, and you're right, i do like him, but he has known that for a year and we're still cool with each other)

So should i kiss him so that i don't have to live with the regret of not kissing him (i've regretted not doing a lot of things and this is one thing that i don't want tot regret not doing)?

And do you think that he'll mind if i kiss him, because that's another thing, i'm scared that he won't like the idea that i kissed because he was probably just playing around when he did the whole kissing thing

Thanks in advance to anyone who took the time to read and answer my question

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  • 1 decade ago
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    It is a kiss on the cheek, just do it.

  • 1 decade ago

    I would say that kissing him on the cheek isn't a huge deal but if you do end up doing it, don't do it in front of a bunch of people because then that will just get rumors started. Now if you were to kiss him on the lips that a different story. You said yourself hes ina relationship so you defenitely shouldn't kiss him on the lips....unless he kisses *you* on the lips. Basically, do what feels right to you and what you're comfortable with.

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't think you're the problem, is he the kind of guy that would cheat? If not and he's an honest guy that is true to his girlfriend, don't try to kiss him. He's already going out with someone. If he's a d-- uh, person that would cheat, go ahead. Ok I'm kidding, don't kiss him unless he's single, don't make him break that girl's heart.

  • MJay
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    It's just a kiss on the cheek, there's nothing wrong with that. I kiss my best friend on the cheeck everytime i see him, it doesn't mean hes gonna be like OMG, nowe if you were going to kiss him on the lips then there may be a little problem.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Should the situation rises again, do it. Don't just randomly do it. But do it only if you truly don't care about the fact that he has a girlfriend.

    Keep in mind you could hurt her (even though you might not care), and those things tend to backfire, so make sure you think about it throughly.

    Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    kiss him!!!! You wont want to regret anything about it just pick the right time!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i think that he was just playin, but if u did really kiss him he wouldnt mind. but he has a gf, and ur time slot is kinda up.sry.just let it go.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think he would love a kiss :)

  • 1 decade ago

    Go for it.

    And if he let go, it meant he was serious.

    Go right ahead.

  • 1 decade ago

    Go for it.

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