my daughter who is 13 and loves skinny jeans wears these knee high converse boots over her pants ?

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I understand she is trying new things and trying to be cool and it might be fun to get laughed at now a days she gets no fashion tips from her mom it is what she likes but it really looks silly should I say something or let it be I want her to be happy and express her self but in the same since don't want her to get bullied at school she has a large collection of pants and shoes which i bought i thought she would wear the boot under a flare or boot cut but she said she love the boots and want to show them off so i said then a skirt or shorts might work better I'm not that old and has dressed several of my girlfriends who get a lot of compliments on there outfits I pick out and put together so I know i have Good taste is this going to be a new thing or what?

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OK ppl i will give more detail they are black converse sky high boots with white laces which goes up her thigh then she wore a white snake skin skinny jeans i think by deb then a black spaghetti strap top with a long purple flannel black nails & purple French tips. so she spent alot of time for this look but it just looked dumb.

CC 9/24/11 Bride · Accepted Answer

Sounds like you already tried getting her not to wear the boots like that and she doesn't want to take your advice. She likes it like that, then let her. If she gets bullied at school..she'll either stop wearing them like that..OR she will stand up to the bullies..tell them she doesn't care what they think..and wear the boots how she wants to.

You should hope that she stands up to the bullies and dresses how SHE likes to.

? · Answer

Hunny, let her be herself.  I used to/still do when I have the chance wear my boots over my jeans.  It's the same thing with the sky-high top converse.  Go to google and type in boots over pants, you'll see.

Kristin H · Answer

If you were to tell her you don't like the look that will make her want to wear it more (and probably hurt her feelings though she wouldn't let you know it). She is 13. This is a time of experimenting with different looks and finding your own style. If she gets laughed at at school that will be when she changes her look. Please just let her wear what she wants (unless its "street walker" clothes) :) Good luck dad!

Anonymous · Answer

Just let her be her. If she wants to dress like that, thats cool. If people laugh at her they are being immature. I dress differently and i get alot of looks in the street but im used to it and i dont care what people think about how i dress because thats me, and good people will accept that. Looking differently is a great way to find out who is shallow and who isnt. If she makes friends and they accept her the way she is, thay are good friends. She should ignore the people who give her nasty looks or comments and just continue to roll the way she rolls. Individuality is great!

? · Answer

I was just about to go out and buy some converse boots myself, what a coincidence. I think that the way she dresses is really popular now a-days. Just let her dress how she wants, she'll grow out of that style eventually, /trust me/.

Anonymous · Answer

She's obviously joined the Neo Nazi Faschist Party in an attempt to overthrow our democratic sysem of life.

Anonymous · Answer

let her wear what she wants, its so annoying when people tell you what you to wear, and skinny's and high-tops are in fashion now :)

Anonymous · Answer

you should let her be its a phase. many young girls do something similar.  Just be happy its not the makeup.

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