how do I not have sex with him?

You simply don't spread your legs...it's a choice hun, you're not some animal that can't fight it's instinct to procreate...

Avoid the dude and move on....or screw him and let the chips fall where they may...why you making it into a drama??? You're an adult...do it or don't do it...simple...

Oh please, can you not control your actions? Try just dating him and get to know him (as long as you both are single). If one or both are in a relationship (married, etc) then you should not even think about any kind of relationship especially a sexual one.

Putting sex up front in a relationship that is just beginning is a sure fire way of ending it quickly.

I hear you saying I am going for it; as soon as I can find that particular place for the both of us.

If once is enough to satisfy your ego, go for it, and then move on to the next one.

Leave a man that can't keep his pants up. He should have control in times when you're weak due to temptation. Condition yourself to dump a man that can't keep his pants up.

Stay as far away from him as you can. Out of sight out of mind and all that.

Infatuations do wear off thank god.

Keep your legs closed, your mouth shut..

Keep your hands balled into fists... if he want's to be fisted, well, you probably don't have to worry about you mouth or legs.

I am hoping he is legal.. Stay away from him and cut off contact if you need to. You will regret it, if it is as disastrous as you mentioned.

wear a pair of jeans and dont shave your legs so you wont be ready to take it off.

Say you have your period today so he wont ask anyway.

this dude can't make you have sex if you don't want to. if he pressures you just keep saying "no." if he insists then dump him. don't date dudes that won't respect your beliefs and morals.

Try not playing stupid games