my capricorn male problem ?

okay so it all started in 10 grade we only lasted for a month and 2 weeks (i know thats little) but i fell for him and what i did was horribil the relationship eneded because he wasnt paying much attention to me he was all about his friends and am a libra i want attention. so i called him and said its over and i thought he would react to it but never did. so basically he just said ok. i was shocked and that hurt me. so i cried alot and he told me he missed me but he didnt want a relationship and on top of that he would talk crap about me how he didnt even like me he felt sorry for me. he told my friends all that. he would always come back to me with a text and flirt with me and he always wants to see me but i said no because i had a boyfriend to move on. its been 4 years and i still care for him and i havent seen him but he still texts me. but recently he told my friend he never wanted anything with me that am a waste of time and that he doesnt want to talk to anyboyd ..... if he didnt want anything to do with me then why text me to see me ?? this capricorn really confusses me. and yesterday i told him i wanted to see him and he said no am busy and am tired and my natal chart with him makes us the perfect couple not one thing negative. : 0