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My husband acts very weird when its time to show love.plz lemme knw if i'm rightfully concerned.?

His excuse of not saying I LOVE YOU ......or i love u too is that its childish. its rare he says it back.

He misses all my birthdays, anniverseries and make excuse its stupid and pointless.

He does help me a lot since i'm expecting, cares generally, we talk a lot, gossip etc. Our bedroom life is very good too............

but on the other hand when i cry a lot over why u forgot my birthday, he first make excuse then ignores my crying and keep watching tv. he also is always ready to take his parents and sister who live with us to wherever they demand to go. for me he mostly gets lazy and try to linger it for weeks and we end up fighting that gets nowhere.

YOU THINK HE STILL LOVES ME?

Update:

Even when i remind him about birthdays, he says ok its ur bday and then go do his stuff. and thinks bdays are for kids. and that when he loves me all year long wts the need of one day.

Update 2:

ablex.........answer to ur question is he does listen to me and we can talk for hours still often even after 5 yrs of marriage. He do hold my hand, kiss me and cuddle me and is 99.9% available for that even when i initiate it.

its other things, like important days, compairing to others.........he is never tired for them and happily jump for thier things and for me he is lazy, tired excuses.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    your bedroom life is good because he wants sex. and sex only. Actions speak louder than words, it seems his only interest in you is in the bedroom...You have a serious problem..You are not loved, you are being used...

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Not saying it is not an issue. Forgetting dates is something that many of us do.

    But does he make you feel loved, ever? Does he remember the little things like your favorite color or that you don't like onions or whatever? Does he crave contact and want to touch you often, hold your hand or rub your shoulders? Does he listen to you when you talk about your day?

    Actions speak louder than words, as they say. We often take those closest to us for granted and put in more effort to please family and friends, even strangers. But in the end, it's the little things that mean the most.

  • 1 decade ago

    Its wrong of him to forget about you and it obviously shows he doesnt care to much... maybe you should talk to him maybe even make your way out the door

  • 1 decade ago

    He does not care. If he cared he would try as hard to impress you as he does for his parents or sister. That's ridiculous!

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