Does anyone know about total lack of sexdrive?

As I'm sure you know, this is a sign of depression; it can also be a side-effect of many anti-depressants. I would encourage him to consult with his doctor and try another medication; there is no scientific formula about arriving at the right med, it's simply trial and error and sometimes you have to try several before you find the right one. Maybe he needs a higher dose. Five years is a long time for the both of you to be going through this--you have a lot of patience! Accompany him to the doctor and approach this as a team if you can as the issue is affecting both of you.

Yeah he definatly has low testosterone. I actually have clinical depression and when I got low T because of a medical issue it imediatly triggered a depressive episode. He needs to be treated for low T. He needs to go see an endocrinologist, not a urologist. Urologists don't study that much into hormone treatments, they just study the male repsorudctive system. The only time Testosterone therapy kills a person is when the doctor gives them poor treatment. Getting simple T boosters isn't going to kill you. What ever doctor he is seeing is HORRIBLY uneducated about what he's talking about.

He needs to be treated for the low T otherwise he'll spend the rest of his life never being himself again... who wants to live like that? I sure as hell didn't. He will feel MUCH better after he starts getting booster shots or gets on something called Andro Gel. So he should just call up his hospital and make an appointment with an endocrinologist and if he does have to see someone outside the hospital make sure he brings his tests results with him.

EDIT: People keep suggesting that it's the anti-depressants that are causing the problem. Anti-depressants to have sexual side effects, however the side effects are NOT this severe nor do the side effects randomly show up after he's been on the medication for quite some time. Low Testosterone can cause all his issues, even the depression. So it could be a combo of both but it is certainly not the anti-depressant alone.

-Connor

It's most likely the combination of the anti-depressant and his low testosterone level. Find a new urologist, that is not true about hormone therapy. I work in a pharmacy and many men are safely on testosterone for low levels. It's safe. Good luck.

i paintings 2 jobs and nonetheless do not make ample cash. in view that of the hours that i paintings, i am traditionally conscious for approximately two days directly earlier than i sleep a couple of hours after which return to paintings for an extra two days directly. Though now not the beyond week or so, i have been in poor health and now not feeling good, so i have been sound asleep on and off daily. normally sound asleep my days away. i am simply so worn out. i used to be in poor health for 2 weeks earlier than that, however i did cross into paintings plenty. now that i do know, it may not make a change, sorry. the one means for me to sleep continually is to discover a role with respectable pay, so i will paintings just one for fifty-60+ hours per week alternatively of 2. till then, it is 2 jobs for me, and little or no sleep. as in step with your hunger factor, that's not real. the longest i ever went with none meals used to be a month and a part, and i did not die. such a lot days i consume just a yogurt or anything small. perhaps you supposed with out meals AND water? ? *edit* catz: sure i agree. i've drawback sound asleep in any case. that sucks too. this night, i am exhausted and SHOULD be asleep, however i are not able to. *sighs* .......... *edit* no precious: sure, you DO actually cave in. Because of the 2 jobs i used to be up approximately four days operating. I slept three hours in ninety six. I used to be approximately competent to fall right into a coma. I got here house and slept almost 14-sixteen hours. I actually handed out.