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? asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

Help Major relationship problem!?

How do you get it threw somebodies head that you have no interest in being friendly with their new girl friend? Brother In law went on a date with a girl he met in a bar and moved her in 5 days later and set up a joint savings account. She has been rude to my mother in law and has even gone so far as trying to get the bil to ask mom for help in buying a house. To say the least I couldn't tolerate this person even before she came into the bil life but the problem is the hubby who feels that I should be friendly with her. I've already said I don't want her in my house or around my kids. My doctor has suggested that it might not be such a good idea for us to even be in the same room together( I had a long talk with her when I went for my check up because I felt really ill about this person and the situation was getting hard to handle). I'm all for agreeing to disagree but every time the subject of her or my bil behavior as of late(been mean to mil) it ends in a fight. I don't want to be nor can I be friends with this woman( to call her a user would be an understatement) and he just does not get it no matter how much in detail I go.I mean good grief I don't choose his friends and it's not like she is a part of our relationship but my bil has a habit of picking up some real winners and I won't tolerate her or him being rude or mean to my mil.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Tell her your brother in law is going to get to ride in a police car soon and show them where the body is.

  • 4 years ago

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