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Teenagers do you consider spanking on the bare bottom to be child abuse?
I want some teenagers point of view on this? And if you agree with me say yes its discipline and give this question a star.
I don't. Bare bottom spankings are discipline to me. I got spanked on the bare bottom with a belt by my parents.
Bonus Question: For people that say its discipline why you don't think its child abuse?
18 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I don't think its child abuse, (unless you leave alot of bruises) because thats the way i was raised i use to get my butt whooped.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
There is a difference between spanking and beating. I say a spanking is just discipline while beating is abuse.
Abuse is when you have malicious intent or if you hurt your child in a way that still hurts a long while later.
A spanking hurts for a minute but it hurts their pride more. A beating hurts and keeps hurting.
- 1 decade ago
It' definitely not child abuse, as long as it isn't too vicious, and it is used for the right purpose. However, I don;t think it is a good way to discipline because it may hurt for a minute but then your over it. I used to have to write a 1 page letter about what I did wrong and then no TV, phone, dadadada...
- Anonymous1 decade ago
It is discipline, but after a certain age it becomes a major invasion of privacy, and after more then 4 hits, then it is abuse (to me anyway).
Its not abuse because most of the time, the child did something wrong to deserve it. But like i said, after a couple hits, then it is abuse.
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- ?Lv 51 decade ago
It's not child abuse, but I don't agree with it. I'm glad I'm not spanked that way, it's probably super embarrassing.
I find spanking with clothes on perfectly acceptable, even with a belt, that is how I have always been spanked.
- ?Lv 51 decade ago
It depends how hard it hit. Like if it leaves marks i think thats a little much. But if its just a pat on the butt then I dont think thats bad.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I don't think so inless you do it so hard that they bleed.
Bonus Questions: Because it's just displined and the child has to have some kind of displined or it will never learn.
- laLv 61 decade ago
No. However when I grow up, I won't spank my children. I was spanked as a kid and it did nothing but cause emotional hurt for me. I know that all kids are different, and sometimes spanking is effective, but for me it wasn't so I won't do it to my kids.
- Jeff NLv 61 decade ago
Definitely not abuse. It combines the safest and most effective ways to spank.
- AlyciaLv 61 decade ago
Yes I consider it abuse. I believe that I can solve any issue I am having with my children without physically hurting them.