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Alright, I'm kinda caught in a little situation....?[Read details]?

Here's what went down.

So, I've had a boyfriend since August 1 2010, behind my moms back.

I've been going to my cousins house to hang out with my boyfriend, cause he lived near my cousin and they were good friends.

So, for quite a while we've been hanging out behind our parents back, why? you ask? Because my mom would tell me that I'm too young. (I'm not even that young, she's just over protective.)

Anyways, about 2 weeks ago, she caught me and him kissing. She pulled me away from him, took my phone away, and screamed at me. Saying stuff like "YOU'RE TOO YOUNG FOR ANYTHING! I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU! DON'T DO STUPID THINGS! WHAT IF I RAN INTO YOU GUYS HAVING SEX!?!? THEN WHAT WOULD YOU DO!?! HUH?! WHAT WOULD YOU DO!?! OKAY, NEW RULE! NO LETTING GUYS TOUCH YOU UNTIL I SAY SO!" She even said that she feels like smacking me across the face.... I was scared.

She's been really pissed and mad since then. And she banned me from my cousins house. I love my cousins, and my boyfriend, and the only way I could see my boyfriend was if I went to my cousins house and hung out with him at a near-by park. We knew it wasn't much of a 'real date' but it was worth it.

We haven't seen eachother since then. And we want to see each other so badly. . . But I KNOW that my mom won't let me go to my cousins house for a very long while.

*Have any of you guys been in a similar situation like this when you were in your teen years? How did you handle it?

*How can I handle it? How can I see him again sometime soon?

And guys, please don't judge or say stuff like "WOW this is stupid, love is stupid, get over it."

I know this sounds like an immature story, but I can't help it.

Update:

Haha Yeah I am 15.

He offered to talk to my mom, but I know that my mom is just gonna think that he's one of those 'sex seeking' boys. He really isn't, but my mom is judgemental person. >.<

Update 2:

@The first person who answered my question:

xD Your answer made me giggle :3

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  • Cory
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    I've been in this situation twice, but both times it was my girlfriend's mom(s) that were overprotective. I fixed the problem by spending time with them so we could build trust between us. Eventually, they allowed us to date again (though we were still doing it behind their back).

    If you're 15 or older, your boyfriend should man up and confront your mom, and show her that she can trust him. If you're 14 or younger, then your mom's right, you're too young.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Be careful... i was 18 and my mom smacked me in the face for seeing a guy and took my phone said as long as i live in her house i cant be seeing guys.. she actually put me under house arrest at 18! crazy.. well i said eff that im 18 ima do watever i want, well i ended up kicked out and now my dads mom, gma, is letting me live with her and i cry everyday cuz i miss my family. value ur family and even if its unfair its better then being hurt, i ended up having my virginity taken from me by rape, i was saving it cuz i respected my body but 1 guy didnt care. ur mom is trying to protect u trust me. if i woulda listened i wouldntve been raped. talk it over with ur mom try to reason with her about it. show her ur mature about the situation please trust me. eventho im happy with my bf i went through to much. i miss my family so much she dont talk to me yet she cries about me. it hurts. take wat im saying to heart obey ur mom but reason with her.

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