what is the best strategy to win child custody against my soon to be ex husband?

Sorry to hear about this.

Sometimes, it really helps to have other people to relate to - people that are going through the same thing that you and your family may be going through.

I have found the following sites helpful to me when I was in circumstances similar to yours.

You should contact an attorney. Do not proceed with this process without the advice of an attorney, or you could face severe legal consequences.

Reference these free sites for free advice / assistance. I ran across these sites when I was looking for advice - and needed FREE advice.

* The Law Guru Site is a great source for FREE legal advice.

It is free and has real / licensed lawyers. Don’t forget, lawyers will meet with you for an initial meeting for free. Also, nowadays, many lawyers will make arrangements with you for payments on a weekly, bi-monthly basis. Don’t forget, licensed professionals, like everyone else, are having a hard time making ends meet. They are willing to work with you. Just get out your telephone book and start calling them (if you don’t want to check out the site).

* The Dads House Forum is for men and women who experience the unfairness of child custody and child support issues.

* The Guardian ad Litem is charged to represent the best interests of the minor child which can differ from the position of the state or government agency, as well as the interest of the parent or guardian.

We control our own destiny.

Peace.

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Unless your ex husband is a horrible father you should not be trying to win custody. Just because things didn't work out as far as the marriage goes doesn't mean you can take children away from their parent. If he is a bad father then you need to have real proof that he is a danger to his children.

You could start by not considering it a "Win" to tear a child away from his father who has expressed a desire to remain in, and take responsiblity for, the childs life. Makes you look like you only want CASH which counts against you in Family Court.

Why would you want to?

It's been proven time and time again that a child thrives when BOTH parents are part of her life.

Stop acting so selfish and immature and put the CHILD first instead of your petty little problems.

It' ashame when the 2 parent fight over the child..The only person get hurt is the child ..But more then like they will get joint custody .

Continue being a woman and a mother. That's about all you need to do.

YET ANOTHER troll who doesn't even bother to sign out to pose as a chick.