My brother NOW wants to be my brother.....too little too late?

Well, i'm not sure how old your bro and you are? I wonder this because I think it's important as most of us grow up at some stage and siblings that used to be less than sibling like can change in time. This of course doesn't mean that any resentment you have will just dissipate immediately.

It sounds like your bro is slightly jealous of your new relationship. I understand that you feel that his care is a little late but sometimes people need to see what they could be missing out on before they realize their mistakes. Perhaps he is just feeling left out and I absolutely understand that you feel he has no right.

Advice - I would let him know your disappointment and that if he truly wants to have a relationship now, that it wont be based on ultimatums and the jealousy surrounding your other bro. Also, I wouldn't make it to easy for him, he has to understand that there are consequences for his behavior however you might be able to move past any animosity you have as he is your brother and it would indicate that he dose care, even if it's little too late.

Good luck :)

Givw him a chance forgive and forget i know its big words but you really have to. He is rethinking what he has done and regretting it give him a chance and see what happens. Maybe you all three can hang out! good luck

Sounds like you and your bro need to grow up and stop acting like you are in 5th grade.

(...but he started it...)

He's family.

He's going to be there forever.