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Why is it so not easy to date Scorpio men?

I've been dating one for 9 months now. Sometimes he's very chatty and other times very quiet. So hard to figure out what he's thinking. Sometimes he talks to me about other attractive women (it doesn't bother me a lot) but sometimes it gets on my nerves. He rather hangs out with his friends than with me most of the time. I give him all the space he needs. I don't call him every day or bother him everyday by texting. He has a temper too and not very romantic either. He used to be before... He's having very stressful months at work lately working more than 10 hours every day and such.

Why are they so difficult? I am a Scorpio too btw

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  • 1 decade ago
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    If he doesn't show you he's interested, then he's not anymore.

    Scorpios are fixed signs, if he's not romantic "anymore" then he's probably emotionally involved with someone else.

    I don't want to hurt you, or tease you with that. He's a fixed sign, so he's probably just waiting for you to pull the curtain on the relationship.

    Good luck, and I hope I'm not right.

    Source(s): Been burned by Scorpio water...
  • LaLa N
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    I think the moodiness, the constantly changing views despite them being fixed, promiscuous, insecurity, big trust issues, big double standard issues, and the lack of communication. Thats one thing very consistent how contradicting but they don't communicate well. Don't like to show a vulnerable side. But this is scorpio-scorpio and usually most October scorpio men. I don't think this applies not all the way to November Scorpio men. They can be everything you want and more in the beginning first couple of months, and then the real true scorpio comes out and its emotional hell. They know which buttons to push, they are very hot and cold. Sometimes even they can't understand their emotions and go back and forth on what they want.

    Source(s): Cancer
  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    Scorpios love a woman who can carry her very own and that is going with each little thing approximately her. Her sexuality, evaluations, occupation, possibilities, thoughts and herself. i could save a lid of those thoughts If I have been you, too messy can scare him away. He needs a solid woman who can 'carry down the fortress' if he have been away. He does not like clingy women folk (save that for the duration of strategies) or maybe if you do, do no longer pretend to be somebody you at the instant are not. this could postpone the value of the stages in a courting with a Scorpio guy.

  • 1 decade ago

    well let me tell you been through the same thing with a scorpio man.. i had also dated a scorpio man for 9 months and when he looses you he is attentive but when he has you he doesnt care.. they are needy they do like their friends more and unromantic at the end. they are naturally bipolar u can say.. not very good to date them in my opinion.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Hmm the last two guys I dated were scorpios.

    They were both really needy and had to be around me all the time, they ditched their friends for me and wanted me to do the same. I needed space and I didn't want to deal with their emotional attachment, I broke up with them both.

  • 1 decade ago

    im going through the same thing now.

    All i can say is that you have to be strong in order to date one... and ive learned jst how strong i can be .

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Because they are sons of bitches

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