Scorpio-Scorpio breakup, how should I handle that?

You know venus is retrograde in Scorpio right now. You both are under the influence, which means communications are affected and people misunderstand you.

This is a time for discernment of what you value in your relationships. It is a good time to end what does not work, or renegotiate relationships to make them better.

It is good to wait until venus is direct to take newly formed relationships to the next level. Decisions made at this time are often reversed once venus goes direct.

If this relationship has roots in the past it has a chance of surviving. Another neat thing is in the retrograde period old loves may reappear.

Resolve anything from your past that is holding you back in relationships and you will come to the end with the ability to have better relationships, knowing who you want and what you want in your life.

EDIT: I cut and pasted the next bit from cafeastrology.

http://www.cafeastrology.com/venusretrog%E2%80%A6

Scorpio and Scorpio Ascendant: This Venus Retrograde cycle occurs mostly in your sign, affecting your first house of personal appearance and mannerisms. This cycle will affect the personal image you project to others. Others are likely to misunderstand what you do and say, and misread your body language. Others may not be seeing you in the most favorable of light, and events may be such that you feel the need to rethink the way you present yourself. You may be coming across in a harsher, even militant manner without even realizing it. Try to keep things status quo with regards to your love life. Don't worry if a lover isn't quite "getting" you for the time being. Things will change once Venus turns direct. Your partnership sector is ruled by Venus, and you could find some challenges relating to a spouse or close partner. Past lovers may figure strongly in your life now. With Venus ruling your privacy sector, you could also be dealing with past actions or karma. It's time to redefine what (and possibly who) it is that you desire.

Ryan Gosling and Rachel Mcadams are both Scorpio I think.

They got back together a few times I think?

I am Scorp and my first bf who was Scorp broke up with me because he said he wasn't ready to settle down. It hurt like hell at first, but I got over it pretty quickly. We didn't keep in touch at all. Several months later, I stupidly wrote him e letter about something else, and he got so excited and called me and tried to get back with me. It took months for me to let him back in, but then he dumped me again lol, for the same reason as before. So we lost touch again. He did the same thing 2 or 3 more times over the last several years. But it got old and I have long since moved on. So Scorpios can come back to you, especially if they loved you. BUT you can't wait around for them. You have to move on in your mind and in your heart. Totally get over him and don't pine for him. Try to meet new people. If he senses that you are waiting around for him, he will prob not come back. It seems like your bf needs a lot of space right now and if you give it to him, he will respect you immensely for it. Don't bother with him, which another poster suggested. Just say "ok, I'll give you your space" and move on. Don't be dramatic about it or guilt-trip him about it either, because he will resent you for that. Just be cool, calm, and rational,and really mean it. Act as if he will never come back and just move on. Then, if he does come back, great. If not, then you'll have moved on anyway. It's a win-win!

The Zodiac is not real...